Contradictions are the root of progress. In a pair of relations, it is often through contradictions to see whether the two sides agree with each other. The true feelings will not be alienated by contradictions, but rather by contradictions, so that both parties can self-reflect and find a more suitable way to get along. Reduce the probability of conflicts between the two sides. When you have a conflict with your girlfriend, how can you save her?
First, learn to coax each other
In fact, it is not easy for girls. Since childhood, only parents treat each other as princesses. When they fall in love, they often hope to find someone who treats them as princesses like their father. Therefore, under such psychological effect, they always ask a lot of requirements for their lovers. In love, sometimes she will play with emotions without fear. The reason is that she treats you as a family member. So you should understand that everything is because the other party loves you. If she doesn't love you, she won't show her unreasonable side. So learn to be tolerant.
Secondly, you should know how to apologize to the other party
When you are with your girlfriend, you must learn to take responsibility for any problem. Even if the other party is wrong, you should also find a way to actively admit it. Don't always haggle over each other and don't let it go at all. If you don't let the other party, how can they feel safe with you. Therefore, you should learn to expand your mind and bear the problems that do not belong to you. Because there is no tolerance, there is no girlfriend. You should know how much courage it takes for someone to choose to be with you when their parents have raised each other for many years. So what is this mistake? It is necessary to let it go.
Again, don't think about not getting used to each other
Many men always think that if she is wrong, I just can't let her. So as not to spoil her. You should know that if you want a woman to be sensible, you should first pay love. If the other party can feel your love, they can understand what is called understanding and understanding. If you can't get used to the people you like, who will you get used to? This life is very short. How many times I miss you is because I am too stubborn and my vision is not wide enough. Or they can't strengthen their confidence in being with each other.
Finally, let the other party give you a chance to test yourself
Although love is not prayed for. However, if there is a conflict, you need to adjust it. But whether you can adjust it well depends on whether you decide to forgive each other from the heart. If you forgive the other party, you should learn to put your posture very low. Because only in this way can the other party feel your heart. Anyone can accept reasonable explanations, but can't accept unreasonable insolence. So, even if you want to save the other party, you should learn to treat the other party sincerely, explain your immature place sincerely, and hope that the other party can make up for the other party in the future life.
In order to save your girlfriend, in addition to your sincerity, you should learn to express yourself to the other party. A good relationship will still feel good after many years. We should believe that the reason why a person is good is that the other party understands tolerance. The more tolerant a person can be, the easier it is for him to be forgiven by others, and the easier it is to achieve what he wants.