Post Date July, 06 2023
Half of human sin is caused by fear of a dull life. In a long marriage, I experienced the passion and entanglement in love, the laziness in the early stages of marriage, and the emotional transfer after the birth of a child, and soon reached the weight-bearing period of middle age. With the improvement of the external environment of the family, the intimate combat relationships between members are becoming increasingly loose.
1. Long term partners should also dress up.
Famous American marriage counselor Frank Pitman said that in addition to spiritual resonance, he also advocates strengthening mutual attraction between couples by increasing psychological changes and satisfaction.
Human love is different from other emotions such as family and friendship, and is based on sexual intention. Some people call it "attraction of the opposite sex". Increasing the heterosexual characteristics of couples will naturally enhance the charm of love. In addition, men are visual animals, and it is easy to cause Sexual arousal by receiving various information through the eyes. So, there's nothing more exciting for a man than seeing a delicate and beautiful wife Middle aged women often have a half withered face, sagging breasts, and their body gradually loses its former plumpness and beautiful lines. But if you regularly participate in fitness activities and pay attention to dressing up, it can help improve the attractiveness of the opposite sex, especially beautify the image in the eyes of your husband
The 'grooming' of couples is not limited to changing clothes or makeup, but also important in modifying their temperament. If the wife speaks in a rough and abrupt manner, occasionally the soft language of innocent girls and Wu Nong will also make the husband feel fresh; If the husband is usually careless and doesn't pay much attention to his wife's feelings, pulling her over, rubbing her shoulder, and saying 'You've worked hard', it's moving.
Some people believe that lovers need to attract each other. In fact, after forming a family, consciously strengthening the mutual attraction between spouses will make your family life more enjoyable and comfortable.
2. Daily communication should emphasize skills.
Marriage is a cup of tea held in both hands. A woman is a hand in marriage, holding tea; The man is the other hand, carrying boiling water. The hand that adds water should know the order of pouring water, and the hand that adds tea should know the advantages and disadvantages of the tea variety. Only with the tacit cooperation of both hands can a good cup of tea be brewed.
There are 168 hours in a week, so you should set aside three or four hours to communicate with your partner and make it your exclusive time. When communicating, be honest with each other, but do not be emotional or complain about the other person's shortcomings. We should try our best to analyze our shortcomings and why these problems arise. If you feel embarrassed to say it or cannot express your meaning clearly, it's better to write it down for ease of wording and to avoid embarrassment.
3. Men need trust, women need care.
Husbands should remember that when their wives freely express their emotions, they should correctly understand their thoughts and intentions, and provide timely and appropriate support and assistance. Women often feel overwhelmed, nervous, and emotional under pressure. At this point, she needs to speak up the problem and let it come out. At this time, the husband should listen quietly and provide timely comfort and encouragement, which can make her feel much better. For a wife, when a husband is silent, it is important to understand his situation and emotions. In addition, although men may appear strong on the outside, they are mostly fragile on the inside. So, a wife should get to know her husband better, not preach hard and try to reform him, but tell him from time to time that you have done well and I am proud of you. Such encouragement will make the husband full of confidence and gratitude towards his wife.
