Some people often tell me about the issue of orgasm during male genital vaginal intercourse, so we need to take some time to talk about it. The first chapter of the book seems to indicate that the penis is the central station for sexual desire cognition and has significant harm to female orgasm. This indicates why 80% to 90% of women who masturbate stimulate the penis and rarely or not choose the method of vaginal insertion.
But it is also known that what matters is not the size of the ship, but the undulation of the sea.
The intelligence conveyed by this sentence is not the size of the penis inserted into the vagina, but rather the sensory stimulation caused by mutual cooperation (perhaps one of the methods used by two sailors), which can provide women with a sense of satisfaction and pleasure during sexual activity. No matter what you learn from movies, romance novels, or sex movies, in fact, less than one-third of women experience orgasm with vaginal insertion, while the other two-thirds of women sometimes experience sexual pleasure or more than just sexual stimulation. The reason for such confusion among women is the same as most women,
Sexual activity is not a reasonable way to stimulate the clitoris, but stimulating the clitoris is indeed the most common way to achieve height.
In fact, whether female insertion stimulation can reach a high level, and the gap between the Yin Emperor and the urethral opening, is mostly a question of physiological structure.
Stimulating the penis is the most common way to reach a high point.
Why are some women unable to achieve high scores in the stimulating vagina, rather than being an important topic?
Among many hypotheses, the two most realistic basic theories are as follows: (1) stimulation of the anterior wall of the vagina, the urethral cavernous body (the same ancestor of the male and female prostate, the origin of the g-point theory), or (2) stimulation of the vestibular bulb extending from the top of the yin emperor to the vaginal opening.
But in the end, due to personal differences, the sensitivity of each person's methods and institutions for constructing their genitalia varies. My own idea is that both of the above basic theories have their own principles, but you also know that it is difficult to obtain funding budgets for scientific research on female orgasm, so until the correct scientific research results are available, everyone can only quietly wait for good voices.
So, if the relativity of plug-in pleasure is not widespread, why do women often ask this question? Why is this method always considered the correct method for sexual pleasure?
Subjective speculation, the answer is: Here we go, patriarchy. It is also a knowledge point of male preset methods. For many centuries, male doctors and biologists have advocated that the sexual pleasure caused by stimulating the vagina is the correct, excellent, and all normal orgasm. Penile orgasm is an immature condition, and Freud is generally referred to as one of the culprits of all of this, and he should take on some responsibilities.
However, the knowledge points of the male preset approach here are different in terms of operational logic and desire for sexual impulses: cultural and artistic establishment of spontaneous impulses is a desirable way of sexual desire, and the method for men to cause impulses is such that cultural and artistic establishment of sexual impulses is a desirable way, and male sexual impulses are like this.
However, if women should have the same orgasmic pleasure as men, the result must be stimulation of the clitoris. Because in human anatomy, the clitoris is the same ancestor of male genitalia. Women advocate achieving height through stimulating the vagina, regarding the practical significance of human anatomy, while men advocate stimulating the prostate and perineum to cause sexual pleasure.
Of course, many men do climax due to the aforementioned stimuli, but if the male orgasm method is not like this, no one will criticize them in many aspects. Generally speaking, men are not good at themselves.
Obviously, according to cultural and artistic knowledge points, women should have the same consistent sexual impulse response and spontaneous sexual activity as men. Women are required to use female specific methods to trigger orgasm, which can also allow men to experience orgasm. Male satisfaction is the predetermined happiness method.
Surprisingly, the challenge lies not only in the knowledge points of male preset methods, but also in the sense of male satisfaction. Women should expect the orgasms of male lovers during hand and oral sex, just as current culture and art expect women to bring sexual pleasure through sexual activity. However, this is not simple. Everyone's social development actually has a special set of expected standards.