Sexual Health
How can a daughter at home receive sex education? Parents should pay attention to these five small details
Many families have guardians with daughters who are very worried. Daughters are not inferior to sons and are relatively weak in society, making them susceptible to multiple violations. Especially when I see reports of teenage girls being violated in the news, I am even more worried. In order to protect one's own children, the first step is to protect oneself. Sexual education provided by guardians is a necessary prerequisite. Let's investigate together.
How should parents provide sex education to their daughters?
1. Start as soon as possible
To provide sex education for daughters, it is necessary to grasp the three golden periods of sex education as soon as possible. At the age of 0-6, it is mainly to give her a preliminary understanding of gender, to know that boys and girls are different, and to teach them basic hygiene knowledge. For example, don't touch your own private parts with your hands, don't let others touch your private parts, and so on. From the age of 7 to adolescence, I hope that parents can tell their daughters how to protect their bodies and inform their parents promptly when they are injured. After puberty, it is important to choose the appropriate time to discuss sexual activities with children, tell them what sex is, and how to protect themselves during sex.
2. Step by step
Sex education is not something that can be ended in just two conversations, it requires a long period of communication. Parents must master this degree and never be too anxious. Be sure to start a good start and establish a good communication bridge with your children. Speaking of this, the child suggested that the communication has not yet arrived and the communication method is incorrect. Parents require professional advice, listen to more sex education courses, integrate and adjust according to their actual situation.
3. Don't be too tough
Many parents have two extremes when facing their daughters, the first being extreme indulgence, and the second being extreme toughness. Regardless of the extreme, we cannot be too tough on the issue of sex education. From the beginning, it is easy to deviate from a child's sexual beliefs by using a tone of lesson and criticism. It is easy for children to have aversion and aversion towards sex, believing that it is dirty and evil, which is not conducive to their future development.
4. Always pay attention to protecting oneself
Facing girls of different age groups, it is important to protect oneself. When you were young, don't let others come into contact with your personal parts. When you were older, you should know how to refuse others' pursuit of you. At an age when you shouldn't fall in love or eat fruits, it's best not to try easily. If you encounter emotional problems that you cannot solve, you should actively seek help from your parents and not bear them alone. Getting injured is not your own fault. You should tell your parents and ask them to protect you.