Young couples naively and persistently believe that having children can be a family fusion agent, or at least feel that having children can solve marital crises. Having children can also solve marital crises.
Some women choose to have children with men in order to get married, and then men honor their children and make them take on the responsibility of being fathers, no longer taking on the pleasure of being married. But some men do not restrain their behavior because they have children, allowing women to have children and being led by men in the besieged city. Don't take the risk of having a child. It's not risky to find the root cause of the conflict and do the right thing. If both parties are willing to improve themselves for the sake of marital integrity and then consider having children; If one party is unwilling to adjust for the perfection of the marriage, giving birth can only be irresponsible towards a new life, and giving birth cannot reverse the current situation of the marriage.
Any member of the family is initially meant to be good to their children, but each person has different parenting concepts. Grandma uses traditional parenting methods to take care of her mother, who doesn't want to see her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law immediately upgrade. This time, it's difficult for Dad to be in the middle. It causes real headaches, how can children find balance with their spouses in complex family conflicts? The pressure of economic life will exacerbate the problem space and be squeezed. The desks and sofas at home are filled with children's toys and things. Even if you sleep at night, even the villains can still occupy most of the big bed because of having children.