I have no further contact with my ex girlfriend
Many men maintain a certain amount of contact after breaking up with their former girlfriend, so their former girlfriend has become a major concern for current women and is considered a rival in love. Whenever a boyfriend has some ambiguous signs, many female friends often ask who their boyfriend is and whether they are ex girlfriends... ex girlfriends make many girls nervous.
"I have no connection with my ex girlfriend anymore." Such lies are often told from men's mouths, but how reliable are they? "People are not plants, who can be ruthless? People are emotional animals, and it is absolutely impossible to turn off the feelings of their predecessors like the faucet.". Presumably, women will not erase their ex boyfriends from their minds. The various beautiful memories of the past are the most beautiful scenery in their hearts, not to say that they can forget.
Therefore, in order not to let the woman around her pry into their emotional scars out of curiosity, nor to let her know too much about their true attitude towards their ex girlfriend, nor to let her use various means to pry into the real world within themselves, men use such lies to cover up their own hearts.
I only love you
Do you often ask a man whether he only loves himself, but before asking this question, have you helped him think about what he should answer? If the answer is no, it will definitely make you unhappy; If the answer is yes, it will definitely win your favor, but have you ever thought about the credibility of his statement that he only loves you?
A man plays many important roles in his life, such as son, husband, father, brother, brothers... His heart is filled with many things, including his own mother, wife, children, and so on. These people occupy a large portion of a man's emotions, and he needs to take pains to maintain these many relationships.
Therefore, it is completely impossible for a person to love only one person for a lifetime. Even if you can guarantee that you only love her now, how can you guarantee that there will be accidents or changes in the unknown future? No matter who has a problem or a split leg problem, can it also be said with a high sounding voice that they only love the person they have experienced before in their lifetime?
If a man says this to you, it only proves that he has a strong purpose and hopes to gain your favor through this sentence, and then possess you. So when hearing a man say something like this, female friends must pay attention.
I work overtime
In today's society, men are under great pressure, so overtime is inevitable. Because of this, "working overtime" has been used as the best excuse by many men who engage in affairs.
When a man has an affair, he needs to spend more time with his lover, so he can only tell his wife that he works overtime and spends the extra time on his lover. Many times, he still colludes with friends or colleagues to deceive you and make you believe his lies even more. You may feel that your husband is working hard, but he is using the excuse of working overtime to betray himself.
Of course, not all overtime is an excuse, a lie, and sometimes it's true. Therefore, when a man tells you that he wants to work overtime, he cannot believe it or deny it entirely. It is best to use visiting as an excuse to explore the situation. It's also good to express your gratitude and offer some consolation to your husband by exploring the truth. Such romance will also enhance the relationship between husband and wife, making your relationship more harmonious.
I didn't lie to you
Most men don't want to make their living environment complicated. Therefore, in order to live happily for themselves, and not to cause trouble for suspicious women, men usually use the phrase "I didn't lie to you" to dispel women's doubts.
But generally speaking, a man's saying this is an excuse and a cover, which can only prove that he has actually deceived you. In fact, a man's heart is also very tangled when he lies to his wife and speaks sweet words. However, considering the tragic outcome of most people who tell the truth and are unable to escape repair, he always speaks with a false tongue. "Even if you don't lose face on the spot when there are too many people, it's enough for a man to have a headache if he's paranoid or suspicious.". Therefore, many times, for the sake of family harmony and with the mindset that more is better than less, men follow their wives' wishes by telling harmless lies and lies to coax their wives and make them happy.
In fact, as long as it is conducive to stability and unity, as long as it is conducive to marital harmony, as long as it is conducive to their own happiness, sometimes speaking some insignificant lies is also necessary for life.
Warm reminder from the editor of Psychological Channel: The above is a detailed introduction to the four favorite lies that men tell before marriage. I hope it will be helpful for you to further understand male marriage. In daily life, male friends must actively face their love and marriage, and I also wish you a beautiful love and happy married life.