There are too many the law of the jungle in this society. If you don't understand them, any of them will be enough to break your head. There is one of the most secret and eerie rules here. If you don't know, even if you win the world, you can invisibly make it impossible for you to recover. The most qualified and trustworthy of these is what your mother wants to tell you, so every man should remember and understand.
Mom said: The biggest enemy of men is not time, not power, not money, not even themselves, but women and being content with the status quo.
Mom said, "Except for me and your future wife, no one is worth your effort. Give it to me because I gave you the love for the first half of your life, give it to your wife, and for the love for the second half of your life, she will give it.
Mom said: Don't cry for a woman, even for me. Men should prioritize their careers and dreams
Mom said: You can let your enemies know who you like, but don't let them know who you love. Once this happens, not only you, but also the woman you love will be in danger. That's why you can't fall in love with a woman.
Mom said: A man can't cry anymore after the age of 10, unless your beloved leaves you and you can cry, otherwise, no one is worth it.
Mom said: Whatever you do, you must pay attention to the cost. If you don't do it for yourself, heaven will take the ultimate punishment. When doing something, you must consider whether you have any benefits, whether it is worth it, what you can get from doing it, and at least, you cannot lose anything because you have done it. It's not worth it.
Mom said: A man should be like a man, for his career, for his dreams, to get drunk, for a woman, not for me, and I will not allow you to do so.
Mom said: If you are a man, you must act alone, with loyalty, arrogance, and chivalry. You should not be too soft when speaking, and a man should have gold under his knees. He should not be soft at any time. Do you also want to receive such articles every day?
Mom said, 'You should be low-key in life, but you should be too high-profile. You should know that if a gun hits the first bird, you should think about what problems you may encounter if you make the first move.'.
Mom said: Men should have a sense of responsibility, and every man should have a circle around them. Only those who stand in this circle are worth your life to protect. As for who is inside and who is outside, it depends on your own abilities.
Mom said: Make friends, don't make too pure ones, otherwise you will gradually be blinded by the golden coat of the secular world. As long as you have the ability, you should make people who are treacherous but not deceitful, and bad but not slippery, because in this way, you can always be wary of whether you are being played with by him or not.
Mom said: In this era of peace, there is no war, no turmoil, and naturally there are no heroes who can be defeated. People often measure a person's achievements based on their money and status. Therefore, on the premise of not violating morality, law, or conscience, do not abandon any opportunity to obtain money and power. The most realistic rule in today's society only depends on how much RMB you have!
My mother said, "A painting stained with blood on a mountain and a river cannot rival a little cinnabar between your eyebrows." This is a P word. Don't see a crooked neck tree and think you can give up a forest. If you get a mountain and a river, everything within it is yours. Even if she is someone else's person by then, you still have the strength to snatch her back.
Mom said: Don't easily trust anyone. In the most difficult times, no one can trust anyone except your own close relatives. We won't harm you, others, it's hard to say.
My mother said, 'What I want you to do is to be an aristocrat, not a nouveau riche, so no matter how wealthy you are, no matter where you are, you must be humble, polite, neither humble nor arrogant, humbly learn what you don't know, don't understand. Only in this way can you continue to progress and climb to the top.'.
Mom said, "At the end of my century, I don't want you to guarantee how rich and powerful you are, but I want you to guarantee that you have the ability to create wealth and gain power, so that I can rest assured.
Mom said: Men who beat women are not men. Don't pick on your own women, go to Tyson. Women are for pain, don't let your women affect your career, and don't let your career affect your women.
Mom said: A man wandering around alone, no matter how much injustice he has suffered, don't give up. Don't be angry, remember, keep it in mind, and one day, let them all come back with profits.
Mom said: Don't do things that you regret. If you do, do things that others regret. Life is not long, and if you live in memories, it will be useless.
Mom said: Don't believe in oaths, don't believe in promises. Facts can prove everything, and those who truly love you won't give you too many oaths and promises.
My mother said, "I despise those who are not filial. You must not have a wife and no mother. My mother has dragged you to such a big age. In the first half of my life, I raised you, and in the second half, you raised me. You should also stay away from those who are not filial, because they are not even their closest relatives. How can they care about you as an outsider?
Mom said: Don't underestimate yourself, there are many people who are not as good as you. Don't underestimate yourself, there are many people who are not as good as you. What you need to do is strive to make the former more and the latter less.
1. Men should have a goal: to surpass themselves.
2. Men should have two ideas: dreams and ideals.
3. Men should have three types of confidence: ambition, loyalty, and courage.
4. Men should have four true hearts: confidence, love, responsibility, and dedication to work.
5. Men should have five strengths: intelligence, perseverance, effort, strength, and vitality.
6. Men are the main body of society, and as men, they should have a sense of responsibility.
7. Men are the support of their families, and if they are men, they must do their duty to fight for them.
8. A man should accomplish two things in his life: achieving his dreams and realizing his ideals.
9. The connotation of a man far outweighs his appearance. Don't worry too much or feel inferior about his appearance or height.
10. Men should have a cloud like heart, be able to withstand the wind, tolerate the rain, and be more tolerant if they can. If they can't bear it, they should take advantage of the rain to find a place where no one is crying.
11. Men should have a mountain like backbone, able to withstand hardships, withstand shocks, and as long as life is still there, everything can come back.
12. Men should have the spirit of oxen, and do as much as they can. Who calls you a man? Don't complain if you are a man, at least you are luckier than a cow.