Oxygen is one of the basic living conditions of human beings, and marriage also requires fresh "oxygen" to achieve lasting happiness. The term "oxygen" here is not a chemical element of H2O, it is the positive energy that sustains marital relationships, and it is something that couples give and receive from each other. If your marriage is experiencing a "lack of oxygen" condition, quickly supplement the following three types of "oxygen".
The first type of oxygen: giving your loved one enough personal space
Although couples live together, most people have different personalities. This leads to differences in the nature of personal communication circles and work. To take an extreme example, when people are introverted and outgoing, the former may think that the other party is too "foreign-related", while the latter may think that the other party is too "feudal". If this contradiction cannot be reconciled, it will destroy the marriage.
In fact, marriage is not a shackle, it requires mutual tolerance and understanding between husband and wife, and cannot be based on personal consciousness. Limiting the freedom of the other person to make friends is like house arrest of the freedom of the loved one. A marriage like imprisonment cannot be happy and will gradually lead to its demise. Therefore, only by giving a lover sufficient personal space and allowing each other to live in a state of freedom can a marriage remain happy.
The second type of oxygen: loving him/her requires understanding and tolerance
Mutual understanding and tolerance are important for couples. If one cannot understand each other and often criticize each other, then marriage cannot maintain harmony. "Because accusation can cause the other party to feel bad about it, a husband or wife who despises the other party, ridicules the other party, and shifts the responsibility for certain things to the other party will definitely cause the partner to retaliate and become angry with each other, resulting in emotional breakdown.".
Therefore, in order to ensure the happiness and harmony of the family, it is necessary to achieve mutual tolerance, understanding, and tolerance. Only in this way can conflicts and frictions be reduced and emotional frustration avoided.
The third type of oxygen: Sex is a solid foundation for happiness
Sex is too important for couples. Because sex and love are closely related and inseparable things, having love can make sex perfect, and having sex can make the expression of love fuller and more flavorful. Couples should enjoy the fun of sex together, innovate it together, and make it colorful. Only in this way can the combination of soul and flesh be more perfect and harmonious. The feelings of each other are fully sublimated by the blending of the flesh.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)