Post Date May, 07 2023
Honest children sometimes use their knowledge to attack me, after they feel truly safe. This brave conflict taught me what children can see and feel, and I also had the opportunity to guide them out of dangerous misunderstandings through discussion and explanation.
Once, I was surrounded by a group of boys. At that time, we were discussing a 13-year-old girl giving birth. I say adolescent girls should pay attention to self-protection. But I haven't finished speaking yet. A man objected that adolescent girls like to be raped. As soon as the voice fell, a few more men supported him. They said they have seen this statement in books, and some CD movies also say the same.
They. I know there must be a misunderstanding, let them provide detailed instructions. They mentioned girls' sexual fantasy. I immediately realized that they confused sexual fantasy with sexual reality. I told them that both girls and boys have some sexual fantasy. But just as boys' sexual dreams cannot represent boys' sexual reality, girls' sexual fantasy do not equal their real wishes. No girl is willing to be violated. Rape tramples on the dignity of women and is hated by girls.
Considering that they mentioned the movie, I gained momentum again. Tell them that there are distorted descriptions of women in pornographic movies and novels, which are unreliable and never equal to the reality of life. Quickly, someone exclaimed in the same way. I suddenly felt that someone had delved into the relevant content. It seems timely that if there is such a misunderstanding, it may lead to new tragedies and may also affect future interactions with women.
Before the class started, I felt that there were significant differences in the understanding of sex between men and women. A girl's attitude is avoidable. I once saw a first year girl repeatedly remind her companions not to read the art book × Page! Because there are paintings of naked women there. My companion really hid the book. But at the same time, a group of boys were competing for the painting at the back of the classroom. This contrasting scene left a strong impression on me. It turns out that there is such a big gap in the understanding of sex between male and female students during their teenage years!
In the classroom of high school sophomores, my point was confirmed. Male sexual knowledge can explain homosexual behavior and clearly define sexual behavior. Girls quietly ask me if I will kiss and get pregnant, and most girls are surprised to say, 'Why do boys know so much?'? In the concept of girls, boys should also be ignorant. If there is no public communication, all girls will think that boys are just as "innocent" as they are. No wonder many girls appear to be lacking in moderation and protection in their interactions, because they have no idea what the boy is thinking.
