Sexual Health
Girls do not refuse sex because of three misconceptions: early sexual behavior and lifelong harm
Post Date September, 06 2023
Adolescent girls have a beautiful longing for love and a vague understanding of sex. When a man requests sexual intercourse in the name of love, many girls do not refuse, and even when they want to refuse, they do not take action due to various concerns. In fact, adolescent girls have misconceptions about sexual behavior.
Misunderstanding 1: Is refusing sexual behavior an abnormal manifestation?
Many women believe that having sexual intercourse between two people in love is normal, and if they refuse, others may find their personalities strange and abnormal. For two adults, sexual activity is normal, but for girls with immature physical development, refusing sexual activity is a normal manifestation. After all, a girl's body is not mature enough, and engaging in sexual activity at this time may cause physical pain. Moreover, in case of pregnancy, such consequences are not something that underage girls can afford.
Myth 2: Devoting oneself to love is worth it
Devoting oneself to love is a fashionable viewpoint, but for underage girls, it is important to consider whether it is worth it. May I calmly think about it? Do you feel that a certain viewpoint from childhood is very childish now? So now that I am so determined to 'sacrifice for love', will I still find it worthwhile when I mature in the future? When you grow up and mature, is it more worthwhile to dedicate yourself to a relationship that can develop a long-term relationship and someone who can grow old together? Adolescent ignorant love may not remember that person's face after many years, why should virginity become a sacrifice of youth?
Misunderstanding 3: Refusing to engage in sexual activity can lead to loss of love
Some girls are worried that if they refuse to engage in sexual activity, they will lose their love. So why don't you think about it the other way around? If you refuse sexual relationships, you will lose it. Is this true love? There are many ways to express love, not just through sexual intercourse. Break up without sex, do men want love or sex? It is worth pondering deeply.
Premature sexual activity or life-threatening behavior among young girls
Adolescent girls have a beautiful longing for love, as the saying goes, 'Which girl doesn't miss spring?'. The ignorant emotions of adolescence are beautiful, but some girls may cause harm to themselves if they have sexual intercourse due to early love. After developing a romantic relationship, young men and girls tend to have sexual desires when interacting closely. And some innocent girls commit themselves to love. This practice of stealing forbidden fruits may endanger one's life..
