Many people in the process of falling in love will give each other money or things, especially large gifts that are basically based on marriage. If they break up, whether these assets should be returned may vary, and there are sufficient reasons for whether or not to return them. I'm afraid this kind of thing cannot be solved by 'reason', it only depends on how deep the 'emotion' is.
Transferring 330000 yuan to the female partner in love, but failing to get married, the male partner recovers a huge sum of money
According to reports, young Kang Luo and Yan Ye began to fall in love with their parents, but their relationship fell apart within a year. For this reason, Kangluo sued the court to demand hundreds of thousands of yuan paid to Yan Ye during his love period. Recently, the Jing'an District People's Court ruled in the first instance that the money given to Yan Ye during Kangluo's love period was for the purpose of marriage, and Yan Ye should return it when the love terminates. Considering that there were some expenses during the love period, the court ruled that Yan Ye should return Kangluo 231000 yuan.
Disputes arising from the preparation of the wedding
In early December 2010, Kangluo's father and Yan Ye's mother met at the blind date corner of People's Park, and both parents left phone numbers for their children to contact. On December 7, 2010, after their first meeting, Kangluo and Yan Ye began their formal relationship.
Kangluo said that during her relationship, Yan Ye often said that work was hard and hoped that Kangluo could support her financially. Therefore, since February 2011, Kangluo has successively given Yan Ye 330000 yuan through cash deposits, bank transfers, and other means. In July 2011, Yan Ye resigned after discussing with Kangluo. In November of that year, the two sides had a dispute in preparation for their marriage and eventually broke up.
On November 28, 2011, Kangluo filed a lawsuit with the court demanding that Yan Ye return 409000 yuan of his property during his love period. Kangluo claimed that the above-mentioned money was voluntarily requested by Yan Ye, and at that time, considering Yan Ye's willingness to marry him, he delivered the money to her. In addition, from January to September 2011, I also handed over my salary card to Yan Ye for management, with funds of 36000 yuan on the card. Later, Yan Ye also withdrew it, along with other cash deliveries of 70000 yuan to Yan Ye, totaling 409000 yuan.
In court, Yan Ye denied taking charge of Kangluo's salary card and did not receive any other cash from Kangluo, but admitted that Kangluo did indeed give himself 330000 yuan. Yan Ye stated that some of the 330000 yuan has been spent during the romantic period, while the rest is voluntary compensation from Kangluo for his resignation. During his relationship, Conrad promised to take on all the household responsibilities after getting married, and only then resigned. Yan Ye claimed that the main reason for the breakup between the two parties was that Kangluo had concealed his illness, causing her to be emotionally deceived.
The transfer is for the purpose of marriage
After the court's trial, it was found that during the love period between Kangluo and Yan Ye, Kangluo paid 330000 yuan to Yan Ye, which was confirmed by both parties. Kangluo transferred a huge amount of money to Yan Ye's name with the aim of marrying him. Both parties have terminated their romantic relationship for some reason, and Yan Ye's continued possession of the disputed money has no legal basis. Considering that during the duration of the romantic relationship, both parties had significant expenses for food and consumption, and that Yan Ye had indeed discussed with Kangluo about resigning from his original unit, and considering Yan Ye's current unemployment and home situation, the court has decided that Yan Ye should return 70% of the above-mentioned money; Kangluo's request for the return of funds and other cash in his salary card lacks factual basis, so the court made the above judgment.
Other lovers also face refunds after breaking up
Recently, when many lovers are deeply in love, they will feel that what I have is yours, and what you have is mine. They give each other many gifts to show their love, but little do they know that after breaking up, when they become enemies or strangers, they will start calculating what they have given each other. If this person is not worth it, they must return it and cannot let them bring the things I have given them happy.
1. Celebrity Case: If You Are the One, Disturb Sun Yali, Regret for Marriage, Still Refuse to Return BMW and Go to Court
Not long ago, I found a marriage partner on the program "If You Are the One" and talked about her sudden repentance during the wedding. 24-year-old Zhejiang native Eguihao demanded that Sun Yali return 300000 yuan in BMW and Sharp TV. More than half of netizens believe that BMW must be returned, so should it be returned or not?
The court believes that the BMW purchased by Eguihao for Sun Yali on this basis is a valuable item, which is different from the general gifts given by male and female friends during their love period and has the nature of a dowry. Due to the fact that BMW cars have already been registered under Sun Yali's name, the court has decided to order Sun Yali to return most of the car payment to Eguihao in terms of vehicle value and usage time.
2. The woman said, 'After breaking up with my boyfriend, he asked me to pay back the money.'
My boyfriend and I met through the teacher's introduction, and he is highly regarded by the teacher. But after getting along for a while, I felt that it wasn't suitable and ultimately decided to break up. My boyfriend never contacted me again. However, two weeks later, the situation reversed. My teacher came to my unit and insisted on talking to me. There was nothing else to talk about, but my heart was still troubled.
As soon as we met, the teacher didn't say anything, just handed me a small notebook and said, 'If you don't fit in, divide it. No one will interfere, but don't leave any sequelae.'. What are the sequelae? I was puzzled that the teacher's departure was somewhat resentful, but when I opened this small notebook, it made me take a breath of air. The notebook was filled with dense numbers, recording all the expenses incurred during my boyfriend's relationship.
The "* * Xiaoju" dined twice, with a consumption of 294 yuan and an average of 147 yuan per person; Eating hot pot 10 times, a total consumption of 520 yuan, per capita 260 yuan; The "cashier" sang 4 times, consumed 480 yuan, with an average of 240 yuan per person; Starbucks drinks coffee 17 times, totaling 518 yuan, with an average of 25.9 yuan per person... purchasing a top costs 469 yuan; A pair of leather boots costs 980 yuan... The notebook also records that my boyfriend paid me a total of 117 yuan for taking a taxi, and it is said that the money for the two of them will be borne by him alone
In total, I should pay my boyfriend nearly 3000 yuan. Finally, my boyfriend also said that if I have any objections to the recorded amount, I can go to him to verify the invoice. I can't express my feelings at this moment. The original guilt towards my boyfriend in my heart has disappeared, and the remaining feelings are not angry or regretful. I just feel a bit awkward. I smile bitterly and shake my head. What else can I do besides handing over the money to the teacher?