Getting married with a son creates a sense of disrespect towards my mother-in-law, and eavesdrops on my conversation with my husband. She makes a 180 degree turn

I met him when I was 27 years old. He was the design director, and I interviewed him as a designer with a monthly income of around 10000 yuan. In terms of work contact, we have come very close. He is polite, has a gentlemanly demeanor, and is very cultured.

We have the same interests for a long time, and we have a good impression on each other. After two years of love, I became pregnant. The reason for working is that we simply got a marriage certificate. After the baby was born, their family said they would help me with the wedding. So we took the baby back to our hometown. I thought my husband was so cultured, and his parents shouldn't be that far behind. However, as soon as I stepped into the house, my mother-in-law gave me a challenge.

He gave me a handwritten notebook and read it to me one by one: as their daughter-in-law, we should respect our parents in law, take care of our children, be diligent and virtuous, not eat well or be lazy, not be lazy in the morning, learn to cook, wash clothes, and do household chores

I didn't feel good after hearing this at the time. I haven't lived together yet, so I started playing the role of my mother-in-law. How can I have a good life living together in the future? At the time, my parents agreed to this marriage solely because my husband was sensible and capable. In front of everyone's face, I agreed to her face to face and turned inside to complain to my husband.

My husband told me not to cause trouble, to obey my parents first, and then discuss this matter after the wedding is completed. I am actually very irritable and have never suffered any injustice since childhood. This time, I endured it for my husband's sake. At night, I went to the bathroom and passed by my mother-in-law's room. They seemed to be discussing something. The old man had a hard ear and spoke loudly. The whispering sound was clear to me as I passed by.

My mother-in-law said, "The daughter-in-law from this city, who came back with a big grandson before getting married, is she a serious girl? I don't think she's like a fuel-efficient lamp. The clothes she wears and the bag in her hand are all big brands that I've watched on TV. Can our son afford it? Old man, you need to inquire. I can't bear the constant pointing and pointing of the neighbors in this neighborhood. In the room, my husband shouted at me loudly, 'Wife, the child is hungry.'. I deliberately made a noise, and the sound inside suddenly stopped.

I went back to the room and recounted the reasons and consequences with my husband. When he heard the words "not serious", he was so angry that he wanted to go to his mother-in-law to argue, but I stopped him. The anger was raging in my heart, and I couldn't catch my breath. In the room, I vented it to my husband: I thought you were so cultured, and your parents should also be good. It's only been a few days now, and that's how things are going. Originally, we brought 50000 yuan to show them our filial piety on this trip, but I don't think it's necessary now. No matter how much money I give her, I can't keep her heart warm.

As soon as I finished speaking, the door was pushed open, and my mother-in-law walked into the room with a smile on her face. This changed her attitude from when she scolded me in the room just now. Following her words, I felt angry and wanted to vomit blood. My mother-in-law said, 'The 50000 yuan you brought me was just in time for the rain. I happened to give you the money for your wedding and planned to open my mouth to borrow money from your second aunt. It's all settled now.'. I looked at my husband with a dark face, isn't it obvious that I was eavesdropping on us?

My husband pulled his mother out of the room, and they were arguing in whispers outside. I have no intention of listening anymore. This mother-in-law is also too wonderful. As soon as she heard about money, she changed her attitude and became a standard power owner. How should we get along in the future? I regret marrying my husband now, but considering that he is such a good person, this idea is not fair to him. Now he is very irritable and doesn't know what attitude to take when facing his parents