Post Date September, 25 2023
Sex is one of the most profound and intense human instincts, and therefore one of the most essential activities. Therefore, as the ancients said, the appetite for sex is also. However, things always vary greatly. On the one hand, sex is an indispensable instinct for humans, and on the other hand, due to the enormous psychological pressure in modern society, a considerable number of men and women have gradually developed the phenomenon of "sexual fatigue".
According to a survey, among this group of men and women, the majority are engaged in intellectual (or mental) labor. These men and women originally had a satisfying sexual life, but unexpectedly fell into the dilemma of "sexual fatigue", resulting in depression and difficulty in seeking pleasure.
I am not old and in good health, but I have no sexual interest. Nowadays, more and more modern urban couples are experiencing such a new problem in their sexual life, which some experts refer to as "sexual fatigue".
To get rid of the dilemma of sexual life, the following points should be achieved:
Formula 1: There is no set standard for the number of times sex is done.
That is to say, the position of sexual life should be placed in a proper position. For some couples, having sex once a month is more effective and satisfying for both parties, while others may feel satisfied by having sex five times a week. This is an individual difference and cannot be forced to be uniform. As long as both parties are honest and express their feelings clearly, they will coordinate and avoid mutual suspicion, otherwise a vicious cycle will form.
Formula 2: Emotional contact is not necessarily sexual behavior. Men generally believe that sexual contact must include sexual intercourse, which is wrong. Sexual activity involves many aspects, and it may not always be accompanied by the excitement of sexual intercourse. Women are most aware of the fact that as long as they have a certain sense of care, it is enough. That is to say, when she actively embraces you, she may not necessarily require you to "take it seriously", perhaps she just wants to find a warm feeling. Formula 3: Conduct in a planned manner.
Making love should also be planned, only in this way can couples have a tacit cooperation. In fact, setting up a "sexual life plan" between the two is also a very emotional enjoyment. For example, a man complained, "She usually likes to have sex very late, and I just couldn't get up my spirits at that time." As a result, "sex" was not at the right time, and we didn't enjoy each other and slept together. It can be seen that setting a "plan" is very important.
Formula 4: Play some romantic tricks.
When two people are alone, they can light candles for dinner; Or two people can cover their legs with blankets, watch the moon on the balcony, chat, and relive the tenderness of their first love... Nowadays, many couples are still in the trend of a "lover's sex method", which is to occasionally go to a hotel for the night. Enjoying sexual life in a casual way often leads to a particularly relaxed mood, which can not only alleviate stress but also enhance intimacy between two people. There is no fixed equation for love, and so is sexual life.
