Extramarital affairs make many men and women suffer greatly, and the appearance of extramarital affairs makes many couples who were originally in love become strangers. So how can we treat extramarital affairs correctly and defend our marriage? Let's take a look at a detailed introduction to extramarital affairs below, hoping to give everyone some help.
The affair of extramarital love can be traced back to the Western "Valentine's Day". From the perspective of its origin, this day is reserved for couples who truly love each other to have fun meeting and sharing their hearts. However, it is somewhat absurd that one of the reasons why this foreign festival is popular in China is precisely because after the reform and opening up, there has been a large number of narrow sense "lovers" with extramarital backgrounds, to the extent that many people in the "besieged city" regard this day as a "touchstone" to distinguish their loyalty.
What cannot be avoided is that extramarital love, which is derived from emotional dislocation caused by mutual adaptability numbness in marriage life, is becoming the biggest crisis in many people's emotional world, and its most direct externalization is the divorce demography. At present, although the national divorce demography has been basically flat for four consecutive years, the divorce demography in some coastal cities is rising year by year.
According to statistics, the divorce demography in Shanghai is close to the "high level" of some western countries. In 2003, 53000 couples divorced in Beijing. Because of the surge in extramarital affairs, the divorce demography in Shanghai has increased 20 times in the past 20 years, becoming the city with the highest divorce demography in China.
From a societal perspective, the widely controversial phenomenon of extramarital love, like the phenomenon of "mistresses", belongs to the "alienation" of social morality and has a negative effect on the purification of society. Some people also believe that in a marriage where emotions are no longer present, emotions outside of marriage are morally innocent.
However, it is precisely due to the existence of extramarital love that Valentine's Day has become popular in China to some extent, and the seemingly extremely romantic and lingering temptation of this day has prompted many "lonely people" to "bravely" find their "lover" outside of marriage, just bring roses. However, "when all beauty cannot withstand the tempering of reality, when all expectations burst like soap bubbles in the wind, life remains only plain and indifferent reality." After the brief and touching Valentine's Day, the rose finally withers, and how many people will return to the perplexed wandering after emotional dislocation.
With the rapid development of society, if one does not control oneself in the face of temptation, it is easy to fall into the vortex of extramarital affairs. Therefore, the editor believes that everyone must pay attention to their principles of conduct and refuse ambiguous sexual relationships, in order to reduce the probability of extramarital affairs occurring.