Post Date April, 15 2023
Extramarital Love: Learn to turn a blind eye to the betrayal of your lover
Some people say that in couples' relationships, many things can be averted by ignorance or pretending ignorance. So, can faking ignorance really effectively solve the conflicts and marital crises between couples?
My forbearance has driven her farther and farther
Mr. Shi is a 32 year old company employee
"I am usually very busy at work and worried about my wife's loneliness, so I specially installed broadband to teach her to surf the Internet.". Gradually, my wife began to enjoy staying in various chat rooms, but I didn't care because I had also experienced this stage.
However, my wife is becoming more and more enthusiastic about chatting. She used to take me to the vegetable market and the supermarket on weekends, but now, as long as she sits in front of the computer, she even forgets to eat lunch.
I checked her chat records and found that she and a netizen chat almost every day. "I thought it was disgraceful for me to check her chat records and believe she would adjust herself, so I pretended not to know.".
Two months later, I suddenly realized that my wife no longer always sits in front of the computer. "I was secretly proud that she had given up her addiction to chatting, but I felt that her wife had become reticent. One night, in her dream, she called out a name I didn't know.". "I thought something bad had happened, so I went to check their chat records and found that they had already left their phone numbers with each other and had agreed on an address to meet. Almost all the call records on my mobile phone belonged to this man, and my head suddenly grew larger.". I think it was my gradual indulgence that led to this situation. If I had come out earlier to stop it, it wouldn't have been so serious. I regret it.
I accompany him to say goodbye to his first love
Miss Jiang, 25, Administrative Assistant
I am not a boyfriend's favorite, which is very clear to me. Before me, he had a childhood sweetheart's first love. He had been through many hardships before, but he never treated me so warmly. After several arguments, I found that this problem can only be solved slowly, so let's wait and see how it changes.
Not long ago, while I was contemplating planning an event for the second anniversary of my boyfriend's acquaintance, I saw an invitation in his handbag. His first love was getting married on our anniversary. I quietly refunded two train tickets to Hangzhou. Forget it, let him go if he wants to go to this wedding.
"I haven't seen anything from him for days. The day before the wedding, he called me and asked me to attend with him, hoping that I could help him choose a suitable gift.". I pretended to be generous and agreed. Watching me stroll with him in high heels all night, my boyfriend was heartbroken. Seeing me carefully helping him choose gifts, he kept holding my hand tightly. When I got home, I wrapped the box in a beautiful package again, and my normally wooden boyfriend thanked me with all his strength. When he left, I cried loudly. He was so devoted to the wedding of his first love, how could my girlfriend not be sad?
The next day, I specially wore a festive dress to attend the wedding. Although I was around, my boyfriend couldn't help but feel a bit embarrassed when he saw the bride wearing a wedding dress. He drank a lot of wine and held on to the groom's hand, asking him to take good care of the bride. I could understand the pain in my boyfriend's heart, but I didn't persuade him. That night, he got drunk and vomited all over me. By the time I cleaned him up and sent him home, it was almost two o'clock in the morning.
Early in the morning, my sleepy boyfriend knocked on my door. He came to pick me up for work. On the way, he didn't say anything except that he was sorry. As he neared work, he took out two train tickets to Hangzhou for the weekend, which he had already purchased. He said, "Thank you for accompanying him to say goodbye to that first love, and in the future, his people and his heart will belong to me.". I listened and smiled with tears in my eyes.
I forgave my husband's betrayal
Miss Zhu, 38 years old Staff
Due to the poor efficiency of the unit, my husband and others have jointly opened a restaurant. The big boss is a divorced woman who is 5 years older than her husband. After they started a joint venture, the business is booming. Business is getting better, and my husband has less time at home. He only spends a few hours at home in the morning, and he also sleeps at home. At the end of the day, I can't say a word to him.
After a few months of this, I found that as soon as I went to their store, a few little girls walked away without knowing what they were discussing privately. My husband always looked embarrassed when he saw me and urged me to go back without saying a few words, which made me feel very strange. Later, the dishwasher's aunt told me that it seemed like my husband and the female boss had a good relationship. Customers who didn't know where to go called their boss's wife, and they also admitted it. I can't believe my husband would betray me like this.
After all, this kind of thing is not good for anyone. "I thought about it several times, but I didn't make up my mind to discuss it with my husband.". However, although I have not explicitly stated it, I cannot allow them to develop. My husband often says he is tired and has lost a lot of weight recently. So I took him to the hospital to have a physical examination. The doctor said that the work intensity in the restaurant is too high and people are too tired, so we should pay attention to rest.
I happened to use this as a reason to persuade my husband not to do it anymore. I didn't mention a word of the gossip between him and the female boss. "I don't know whether the doctor's warning worked or whether my tolerance made him feel embarrassed. Anyway, in the end, my husband listened to me, and the rift between us was quietly healed.".
Daily life is dull and long. Lovers get along for a long time, and various factors from themselves and the outside world make it easy for both sexes to feel emotionally exhausted. It stealthily crawls over the hearts of lovers, casting heavy shadows, setting dangerous traps, and endangering the embankments of emotions.
