Many people believe that extramarital love is a unilateral injury, with one partner who cheated benefiting and the other suffering. In fact, this view is absolutely wrong. Extramarital love is a double-edged sword that not only harms the other party, but also brings a devastating blow to oneself and family.
Extramarital affairs affect the physical and mental health of couples
In reality, when women encounter the troubles of extramarital affairs, they do not want their families to break down, but they tend to cling to that exciting extramarital affair, and are in a dilemma of choice. In this way, women are prone to self blame, guilt, remorse, and being unable to get rid of it, which affects their normal life and work, as well as their emotions and even their physical and mental health.
Extramarital love makes happy families disappear
The occurrence of extramarital affairs by married women often leads to disharmony in their marital life, casting a shadow over their originally happy and happy family, leading to divorce. At the same time, due to the involvement of women as "third parties", it can cause restlessness in another family and may also disrupt another well behaved family.
Wife's extramarital affair dampens husband's self-esteem
Women engaging in extramarital affairs will make their husbands wear "green hats". If he were to know, it would be an indelible pain in his heart. As a big man who cannot control his wife and leads to a red apricot falling out of the wall, he may feel that he has lost his dignity and cannot stand up in front of others, resulting in a loss of initiative and affecting his future social life and work. Individual men with fragile emotions may also lose their courage and end up feeling depressed, which is a common result in daily life.
Extramarital affairs have a negative impact on children
Once a child learns about an extramarital affair, it will be detrimental to their healthy growth. The disharmony between husband and wife, as well as the cold war, can have a negative impact on children. Because parents are the first teachers of their children, their words and actions will have a subtle impact on their children.