Extramarital love: five kinds of emotional lies
The extramarital affair is doomed to not last, because it is not pure by nature. People who have extramarital affairs cannot escape three reasons: emotional need, sexual desire and interest seeking. Of course, these are three internal motivations. These three motivations may also be mixed with each other. On the surface, they are likely to show emotional needs, but the real motivation is the other two. Because extramarital affairs are often based on love, in the form of externalization, it often presents the requirements of love for emotional purity, the pursuit of a new marriage, or the requirements for the other party to pay
The most typical situation of extramarital emotion is that one party seeks for the long-term relationship between two people, even marriage, but the other party only wants to make limited contributions, or just wants to get sex, but not emotional. Therefore, it is difficult to achieve the same goals and requirements in extramarital affairs. "If you pretend to be true, it is true and false. This is the unspeakable state of many extramarital affairs. Besides, extramarital affairs are often caught in the cracks, and are doomed to suffocate in addition to reckless pleasure. Too tired, too tired to suffocate, doomed to an extramarital affair. The kind of extramarital affairs that focus on the pursuit of stimulation will often get tired if they can't get in love quickly. The crash is only a matter of time.
It is precisely because extramarital affairs are often in the gap with each other that the relationship between extramarital affairs becomes strange and inexplicable. For example, both sides have their own families, relatives and friends, which are all in the light. But the lover in the dark is doomed to be subject to all kinds of relationships in the light. For example, if an extramarital lover wants to date, he has to find a way to create a dark side or gap in time and space, which has the nature of stealing. In fact, this kind of relationship between light and dark also affects the psychology of emotion. The most common external manifestation is not to tell you something clearly, but to take the way of hint. Of course, this kind of suggestion is sometimes a kind of emotional expression, sometimes also a way of advancing and retreating, even with a certain sex or. But under the circumstances at that time, some words seemed to be full of romantic poetry. When these words were drained by time, they were finally found to be a pile of garbage. If you don't believe it, please see:
This sentence has several meanings from the lover's mouth. First, you are not enough for me. I am not satisfied with what you have paid. The second is that you have no reason to ask for my feelings, because you do not. The third is that the premise I pay is that you must pay. But usually some lovers, when they hear the other party's words, will think it is a commitment to him. Only themselves, the other party will also pay for themselves, and even marry him after divorce. Finally, I found that this sentence can be advanced or retreated. That is to say, you are required to pay more, and then at the critical time, use this to prevaricate you: because you are not full, then don't blame me for retreating. The ambiguity of lovers when saying this sentence, and the strong contrast with the cold ending, will make people feel that extramarital affairs are a sharp sword.
There is a particularly interesting phenomenon. There is a rule. Someone told you that this is not the problem of money, but the problem of money. To draw inferences from one example, lovers talk to you about emotional issues rather than money issues. It doesn't always mean that I should pay more affection to you, and not be stingy in front of you. The intention of the other party is most likely to make you speak to her emotionally and treat her like dirt when you spend money on her.