For many couples, Valentine's Day is the most important day except for birthdays and the anniversary of getting good with each other. But the essence of Valentine's Day is to make marriage and love more beautiful, but it has now become a platform for extramarital love. This dislocation is difficult to explain clearly, but it accurately describes the grandiosity and superficiality of people's feelings today.
The phenomenon of extramarital love derived from the emotional dislocation caused by mutual adaptability and numbness in marriage is becoming the biggest crisis in many people's emotional world, and its most direct externalization is the divorce rate. At present, although the divorce rate of the whole country has been basically flat in four years, the divorce rate of some major coastal cities is increasing year by year.
As for the widely controversial phenomenon of extramarital love in the current society, from the social point of view, extramarital love and the phenomenon of "mistress" belong to the "alienation" of social morality, which has a negative effect on the purification of society. Some people also believe that in a marriage that has no feelings, feelings outside marriage are morally innocent.
However, it is the existence of extramarital love that promotes the popularity of Valentine's Day in China to a certain extent, and the temptation of this day seems to be extremely romantic and lingering urges many "lonely people" to "bravely" find their "lovers" outside of marriage, just bring roses. However, "when all the beauty can't stand the tempering of reality, when all the expectations are broken in the wind like soap bubbles, life will only be plain and light reality." After the short and moving Valentine's Day, the rose finally withers, and how many people will return to the wandering after emotional dislocation.