Some people say that marriage is a tomb, which can strangle each other's love and make the originally strong emotions fade or even disappear. A person who holds this view is definitely a fool who doesn't understand emotions and can't manage a marriage. Because thinking of it as a tomb and jumping in, isn't it like 'digging your own grave'? Once again, it is necessary to correct this fallacy. Marriage is happy, and marital life is sweet. Achieving this goal is actually very simple.
Happy little things express love
Marriage is composed of many small things, such as cooking, laundry, household chores, etc. These seemingly insignificant things have a great impact on the emotional relationship between couples. From now on, start by changing yourself and getting up early to cook a hearty dinner for each other; Help him/her wash the dirty clothes; After work, buy a small gift to surprise the other party; Or say a gentle word for your lover, which will definitely bring different emotions to the other party, and the marital relationship will also be sublimated.
Grasp common interests
Since we are a couple, there will definitely be things that resonate. Whether it's our interests, hobbies, or certain habits, grasping these commonalities can make us closer to each other and keep our relationship constant. For example, if you both enjoy watching movies, take the initiative to book two tickets and find a time to watch them together on weekends or holidays to relive the scenes of love; If you like to eat, it's even easier to gather delicious food from the city and taste it together.
Set aside time for your loved ones' holidays'
Even if they get married, both spouses still have to have their own circle. Perhaps it's classmates, colleagues, friends, but in short, any friendship that is legitimate should be supported. To be honest, walking around someone every day not only makes you tired, but also makes them feel visually tired. So, give your lover a "vacation", let men go out to drink with their buddies, and let women go shopping and shopping with their girlfriends. If you are already classmates and colleagues, it would be even better to prevent gatherings of classmates and colleagues.
It is important to remember that marriage is not a tool to restrain couples, but a platform for two people to live a harmonious life together. So, not only should love be used to nourish marriage, but also to allow each other to enjoy the sweetness and happiness of marriage.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)