Post Date April, 15 2023
Good marriage is what everyone yearns for, so when it comes, we must seize it, and pay special attention to it when making a blind date, so as to prevent good marriage from slipping away from us! Let's take a look at the six taboos that are most easily ignored in dating.
1. When we first meet on a blind date, silence is nothing
When strangers meet for the first time, it is not the most difficult to find a topic, but to keep it going. If you don't say a word; Or no matter what the other party said, it was just a cold response; Don't take the initiative to create a topic yourself. It will definitely make the other party retreat calmly. Dating, after all, is a matter of two people.
2. The clothes and temperament are completely out of tune with each other
For the first time, if one party feels that the other party is dressed in bad taste and is unwilling to walk together, there will be basically no second chance. If you don't have much confidence in your dress taste, you might as well read the dress matching guide of fashion magazine before dating.
3. One bite at a time
During the first meeting, all the big and small things are left to the other party to choose, decide and deal with. You are completely passive. Unless the other party happens to be a big man and a big woman, the other party immediately feels bored and tired. And even if the other party has a strong desire to control, they will also want to meet your wishes: What do you want to do? Where would you like to go? If you don't have any expectations, you will always be "casual", and the other party will feel uninterested. Again, dating is a matter of two people. You might as well prepare for it.
4. The attitude of paying the bill is not enough to "observe the situation"
In fact, in the early stage of love, paying attitude is very important. If the other party is a big man and a big woman and has enough strength, the best way to avoid is to compete with the other party. However, if the other party's concept is Westernized and emphasizes equality and independence in everything, you may as well pay for it. If the other party is a little older and stronger than you, you don't have to pretend to rush to pay the bill. Just express your sincere gratitude. But after a few times, you might as well buy a small order.
5. Too brilliant love history
Talking about past love experiences is almost a compulsory course for new dating. But if you say too much, you will lose. It is easy to lead to the end of the relationship. If you have rich experience, the other party may think you are easy to be distracted, or you may think you are not proper; If the experience is not only rich but also painful, the other party will not sympathize with you, but will feel that you must have problems to be dumped. Of course, the other party is another type of Wenqing.
6. Don't be physically first on the first date
Even if it is love at first sight, there is no need to shout and meet frankly. On the one hand, the other party will feel "too fast" afterwards, and on the other hand, you can't help losing your enthusiasm. At least two times later, at least after we have made clear our love relationship.
In the early stage of love, sometimes it is as thin as a spider's web. If you are careless, you will lose everything. Or to show your gentle side.
