Post Date May, 29 2023
Don't think that only girls are the "jealous pot". In the face of emotions, jealousy is not gender specific. It's just that the boy's jealous behavior is somewhat obscure and inexplicable, making it difficult to see through and touch. If it is not clear that the other party is jealous, it may also trigger a "cold war". What should I do? Today, the editor will analyze and analyze the behavior of boys when they are jealous. If there are any of the following symptoms, go and comfort them quickly. Being jealous can harm your health!
1. Consciously avoiding face-to-face contact with you
The deeper the love, the stronger the jealousy naturally becomes. Boys with less confidence have a strong desire to control their girlfriend. However, once they feel that their girlfriend is no longer under their control, they will play hide and seek with their girlfriend, avoid meeting you face to face, and try to avoid situations where they are alone with you. In the words of jealous boys, this can avoid embarrassment and even change jobs.
Response: At this point, girls should not expect boys to actively approach them again. Their self-esteem does not allow them to do so, and girls had better take the initiative to apologize for everything in order to bring back the sweetness of the past for both of them.
2. Leave it alone for a while, and then entangle it
Some boys exhibit two opposite states when they are jealous. Suddenly, I will pretend that I have nothing to do, and as soon as I get home, I won't answer your phone calls or reply to your messages, making it seem like the world evaporates. Then, all of a sudden, I will clamor for a fight with my romantic rival, and crazily pester you, asking you whether you love me or him.
Response method: In order to soothe his irritable and restless heart, girls should not be stingy in expressing their love. It is best to give a boy some small surprises, such as dressing up beautifully and giving him a sweet kiss.
3. Angry while ignoring others
Some boys may get angry while ignoring others when they are jealous. Such boys have a serious sense of sovereignty, thinking that their girlfriend is their personal property and completely forbidden to be touched by others. The most common scene is when a boy sits on the side with a cold face. You asked him what was wrong? He glanced at you and said, 'Not much.'. Are you angry when you ask again? He gave you a blank eye and said, 'No, I don't.'. Some girls may not be able to bear the awkward behavior of boys, but this kind of behavior is just a manifestation of their inability to hold.
Solution: At this point, just bring it quietly by their side.
4. Self pity, self harm, self injury
Some boys also enjoy playing the role of 'self harm for love' and run out to drink and drink when they are jealous; Decadent smoking, looking up at a 45 degree angle; Running wildly on the road in the middle of the night. Anyway, this kind of self harm will give them a sense of sublimation and make them feel unique.
Response method: At this time, it's best for girls to write him a passionate letter, and he will be very happy no matter how literature and art come about.
5. Speak harshly and without mercy
Some boys often feel uncomfortable when they see their favorite girl or their lover being very close to other boys. They subconsciously develop strong exclusionary emotions and a strong desire for possession. The vast majority of them emit bursts of jealousy through different language expressions than usual, and the common one is particularly sharp and sarcastic speech, When sarcastic and sarcastic, it fully demonstrates the richness of its wording and language. It's actually telling the other party about their strong dissatisfaction.
Response: At this time, it's best for girls to have a deep embrace and let the other party know that their heart has always belonged to them.
6. Intentionally talking and laughing in front of you
Some boys may force a smile and pretend to be relaxed in front of their beloved girl, and may also appear particularly talkative and humorous in front of you. However, when discussing topics, they will try to avoid people and things that are easy to stimulate themselves, or sensitive topics that can make them jealous. However, no matter how much he deliberately disguises them, it is impossible to achieve seamless communication, The traces of jealousy will inadvertently reveal the horse's feet.
Response: At this point, the girl should not say any unnecessary words. Just silently hold her hand and give her a loving look, allowing everything to return to the beginning without words.
7. I often pretend that it's none of my own business to get things done
Sometimes, girls will try their best to test whether a boy likes them or not, so they deliberately praise and praise other boys in front of the boy. Usually, the boy will use an onlooker's attitude to warn you: "He has ulterior motives and plans," and tell his shortcomings and privacy with a casual expression. Perhaps you can't see any jealousy surging from his facial expression, or even see a nonchalant expression.
Response method: At this point, a girl can mention a girl who has close contact with him and show a jealous look, and the boy will be very happy instead.
8. Showing a strong desire for possession
If you talk to your boyfriend about another boy who is more outstanding than him, his performance usually varies from person to person, and the vast majority of boys will warn their girlfriend: "Don't talk to him. And it will increasingly interfere with your occasional contact with a specific boy, whether in work or daily life. If you say he is jealous, he will immediately sink a bad face and no longer pay attention to you.
Response method: At this time, it is best for girls to tell boys in clear language who they love the most in their hearts.
