Confucius said a long time ago that "only villains and women are difficult to support, and if they are close, they will resent if they are far away.". Most men think that women are inexplicable and difficult to understand. The last second they are still talking and laughing, and the next second they are angry and open their books. As a book said, men are from Venus and women are from Mars. Men and women are completely animals from two planets. And men have to deal with women for a lifetime, so what minefields can't women step on?
Never make a negative comment on her appearance
Appearance, body and other things are always the first minefield of women, just like penis and sexual ability are the forbidden areas that men can't touch. Never say that women are ugly or fat, just as never say that men are not good. To tell a girl that she is ugly or has a bad figure, a little fat and too small breasts is the most serious damage to her self-esteem. Even if the broad-minded women face negative comments from men, they will also blacklist him and stop contacting customers. If you say this, you can only say that your brain has been eaten, and Tortola's hatred is worth nothing. Don't say that you want to make further contact with her. It is still a big question whether others are willing to make contact with you.
Never say anything about her behavior
Women are most afraid of men gossiping about her, especially when they judge her behavior regardless of the situation, which is fatal. Privately, tactfully and skillfully point out the inappropriate behavior of women. Maybe women will also appreciate you and deepen their affection for you. However, if you point out her behavior directly without dividing the scene, it is because she has not turned her face on the spot. If you have the idea that "I can help you point out your shortcomings and you should thank me", I can only say that an idiot is not as white as you. A woman has a strong self-esteem and is very sensitive. A slight failure to save her face will embarrass her. What's more, this kind of approach directly makes her feel down? Draw a XX directly for you, and you won the first place. If a woman can bear to do this to you, don't hesitate to take it home. But next time, don't be so judgmental about her behavior, unless you have the ability to subvert the sea and transform the mulberry fields. If you really don't like it, you'd better move away from the mountain. No matter how much love a woman has, she can't afford to be consumed by a fool like you.
Never criticize her parents
It is said that the daughter is the mother's intimate little cotton-padded jacket, and the attachment of a woman to her family is far beyond that of a man. Therefore, the position of a woman's parents in her heart should not be contested. I think that men who criticize women's parents are either witty or drunk, which is the prelude to digging their own graves. A woman has been around her parents for more than 20 years, and only a few years around you. How many years do you want to compete with those two decades of deep attachment? If you really want to spend your life with a woman, you should give up to her parents as if they were ancestors. Although not obedient, don't express your dissatisfaction or tell her directly that your parents are wrong. Maybe the woman's parents may be really excessive, but people are short - term protectors. If you say so directly, it will only arouse women's short - term protectors. Women who have a little guilt will also be annihilated by you. A wise man should compromise. A woman will be more gentle to you because of her parents' guilt. She will endure a moment of grievance and enjoy a woman's double tenderness. Why not?
Four women don't want to spend money
I think, as long as a woman's brain is not bad, she will not follow a man who is reluctant to spend money on her. Women can save money for you, but you must be willing to spend it. Women don't necessarily want you to buy her anything valuable, but if you think so, you will celebrate your breakup early. Women all have a strange conclusion, "The man who is not willing to spend money for her does not really love her". Maybe you just want to spend money on the edge of the knife and haggle over every ounce for your good life in the future, but women do not think so. A man can have no money, but a man must be willing to spend money for her. A man who refuses to spend money for her is not really willing to live with her.
Don't boast about another woman in front of another woman
A man who praises another woman in front of a woman is either born without a string or completely stupid. Women don't like others to compare themselves with others, especially the people beside them. Women are all creatures of duplicity. If she praises an excellent woman you all know in front of you, you should not be silly to agree. If you do so, if a woman doesn't say it on the spot, she will have a lump in her heart and wonder if you are interested in that woman or something. Maybe you will cry out that you are wronged. She raised this topic, and you just tell the truth. However, women are delicate in mind and tend to think about things. They are the creatures who make trouble by themselves.
Don't try to reason with women. The memories of their quarrels often make you dumbfounded and surprised. Maybe she remembers all the trivial things you have forgotten. Don't presume to help relatives and friends without consulting with women. This will make women feel that they are not respected and that your mind is no longer in the family. Maybe you only talk about the spirit of brothers.