Don't speak up about sexual issues on the spot, they can have unpredictable and serious consequences

As the saying goes, couples do not have overnight grudges. If there are any conflicts or opinions, communicate early, do not accumulate them in their hearts, and do not harm the relationship between the two parties. However, there are also sensitive topics that cannot be expressed directly. Sex is one of them. The phrase 'there are great women behind successful men' is also appropriate in sexual life. In terms of male performance, the role of women cannot be ignored. They unconsciously complain, criticize, and despise, bringing unexpected and serious consequences to men. Men usually pay more attention to their strong sexual abilities and their image in the eyes of the opposite sex, making it difficult for them to accept their negative beliefs for a period of time.

Women's direct expression can hurt their emotions and undermine their confidence. In severe cases, men unconsciously develop a retaliatory mentality, intentionally avoiding love with their partners, resulting in decreased libido and even erectile dysfunction. Therefore, if couples have problems during sexual activity, they can temporarily leave it and politely ask after leaving the bedroom. You can also choose some more harmonious occasions, such as the opportunity to discuss the taste of food at the dining table, and also mention your feelings about the room. When you watch TV on the sofa, you can deliberately express your thoughts.

You can also gently express some changes you want from the other person when exercising together. Of course, when communicating, the tone of voice is also important, which can be expressed in words that I like... if you... may... that are encouraging and comforting. Try not to use words that hurt emotions, such as no, no, no, or speak in a condemning or commanding tone.