Post Date October, 06 2023
A psychological interview tells the story of a blooming girl who, out of curiosity, peeks at a pornographic CD purchased by her family and is accidentally discovered by her mother. She is very worried that her child's reading of these things will affect her normal development and growth, and wants to talk to her child about this matter, but she doesn't know where to speak up and falls into tension and panic. And the child thinks that after reading those things, they are no longer good children, falling into the pain of self blame and guilt
China has thousands of years of feudal history and has long been constrained by closed sexual concepts and traditional culture. The topic of "sex" is difficult to discuss even among adults. But when facing problems with children, fear, fear, and avoidance are not conducive to problem-solving. At this point, the wisest and most effective way for parents is to learn about their students' sexual health knowledge, consult with experts, find suitable opportunities in life, naturally communicate adolescent development issues with their children, appropriately express their opinions and opinions, and provide positive guidance to their children. This not only satisfies children's thirst for sexual health knowledge, solves their curiosity and mysterious psychology towards sexual development, but also promotes their understanding of their own phenomena. Otherwise, it will generate a sense of guilt like the girls in the program. Psychologists analyze that this sense of guilt is likely to have a negative impact on children's future physical and mental development.
Children's sexual curiosity is a normal manifestation of sexual consciousness and psychological development, and is a necessary stage towards maturity. Parents should not only care about their lives and studies, but also pay attention to their children's physiological and psychological changes. Because these changes reflect children's thirst for sexual knowledge, if this demand is not properly met and correctly guided, it is easy for children to become confused about their rapid physical and mental changes, and even lead to sexual psychological disorders due to excessive suppression, or sexual crimes due to excessive indulgence. Learning about sexual health education for students not only improves parents' understanding and attitude towards sexual health, but also enables them to correctly understand the physiological and psychological phenomena that occur during sexual development, improve parents' sexual concepts and attitudes, set an example for children to imitate and learn, and improve the quality of marriage life and the ability to educate children through self-education.
At present, the main methods for school-age adolescents to acquire sexual health knowledge are teachers (39%), health classes (28%), parents (16%), and television (11%). School and family are the main ways for students to acquire sexual health knowledge, and the role of parents in children's sexual health education is irreplaceable. Parents in the 21st century should bear these responsibilities and obligations, and provide scientific and healthy assistance for their children's healthy growth. This is not only necessary for the development of the times, but also to become intimate friends with children, narrow the psychological distance between them, promote their healthy development, and help them take the crucial path of adolescent sexual development in their lives.
