Don't bring yourself a sense of superiority in marriage, life is the only way to be happy

Since the two are already married, the first thing to do is to manage this marriage well. After all, marriage is one of the most important things in a person's life, but mental health experts point out that many people in life do not know how to manage marriage. Especially for women, they may even have a certain sense of superiority in marriage, which is very fatal.

Many people face opposition from their parents when they get married. But they are desperate to marry each other, and in fact, the majority of parents oppose because they feel that the other person is not worthy of their own children.

After getting married, problems arose and there was a slight dissatisfaction. The side whose parents oppose begins to say, 'How can you treat me like this?'? How poor you are, how low your education is, how bad your job is, how unable to afford a house, and so on, and how superior my conditions are indeed. How I didn't dislike you, how my family looked down on you, and how they opposed me marrying you. But how I am with you without hesitation, how can you be like this!

The party who was initially opposed will still feel grateful or moved. But as you recite more and more frequently, the gratitude and emotion will only decrease. Until it disappears and continues to nag, the other person will become increasingly impatient. Until I couldn't bear it, I opened my mouth and retorted.

So both sides fought fiercely, your so-called sense of superiority before. Now all of them have become the shackles and burdens of the other party, and they will no longer feel a little sorry for your kindness. Your negative feedback, your struggle with your family, he will only feel annoyed, while you are still using your sense of superiority and "kindness to him" as a bargaining chip to negotiate with him. But that chip had already become a negative number in his eyes.

In fact, the thing about marital emotions is just a contract. Just like in a business, both parties take what they need, and if it weren't for something that attracts you, it could bring you benefits. Bringing a benefit that you cannot do without, then you will not choose to lower your figure. What can one feel superior to give more than ordinary people in exchange for him?

In summary, it is recommended that some women take back their sense of superiority as soon as possible. You may have put in a lot of effort in your marriage, but you can't express it in the form of a sense of superiority. You can do it in a different way. For example, when flirting with him, it would be better to mention your efforts.