Post Date April, 15 2023
There is no need to rush to save a relationship or a person. Step by step is the key. After your boyfriend breaks up with you, most of your actions will determine the direction of this relationship, whether to save it or say goodbye. And emphasizing the correct methods and methods can achieve twice the result with half the effort, and cannot be rushed or neglected.
Don't leave his circle
After breaking up, don't gradually fade out of his circle, such as socializing with his friends, and don't break up. This will make him feel like you've been by his side and never left. No matter what troubles he has in his life or work, he can always sit down with you to talk about it. This way, your subtle relationship with him will be slightly eased, and the embarrassment will be reduced. He will feel warm and the unfamiliar relationship will gradually disintegrate. Seize every opportunity to have a conversation with him and avoid discussing compound information as it may make your boyfriend feel disgusted. Speak more about life and put aside emotional matters first.
Show a soft side
When there is a chance to come into contact with your boyfriend, you must not be domineering. As the saying goes, "Don't hit a smiling person with your hand." Show softness, and the other person is also embarrassed to treat you coldly. I believe that in your gentle and refined state, your relationship will add more composite signals. No man likes a mean and strong girl, so maintaining a soft side in conversations and contact with an ex boyfriend is an appropriate method.
Conversational humor
Make yourself optimistic, don't feel lethargic when you first meet. Talking to someone can appear humorous and make them feel that you are doing well, even happier than when they are together. Don't be sarcastic when talking together. You can have a more unscrupulous sense of humor. When communicating, it can make the other person feel infected by you. Believe that they have never seen you before, they will be surprised, and they will also see your changes and sunshine, eliminating the so-called awkwardness and coldness.
Speak compound words generously
After a period of separation, the boy may have already felt the signal that you want to get back together. If you didn't object to your words before, it's a good start, but when you don't get his personal recognition, everything is speculation. Therefore, at this time, you can propose to the other party to get back together and speak to them generously. Don't feel timid or embarrassed, it's okay, The worst outcome is just that he refuses you, and the girl boldly says she wants to get back together with him.
To save your ex boyfriend, you need to take it step by step. Don't rush it too quickly. You need to treat it with care in order to have a smoother journey back.
