From the original intention of the most positive energy of cohabitation, it is a means of accommodation for couples to enter the marriage palace. However, in reality, many cohabiting couples cannot enter a marriage and instead face emotional breakdown. There are many factors that trigger this situation, and both men and women have serious problems.
For women, the cost of cohabitation is higher, so if a woman desires to achieve the most satisfactory results in cohabitation, she must abide by the following 6 "shouldn't" principles.
No. 1: Ignoring the other person's shortcomings
Before cohabitation, each other presents their best selves in front of each other on every date. After cohabitation, it is likely that they have relaxed their vigilance and completely exposed their true life state to each other. Since you have chosen to cohabit, you should be fully prepared to meet all of his shortcomings you know, and learn how to accommodate each other and adjust your relationship model in a timely manner.
Second Shouldn't: Find out about the other person's privacy
Respect each other's privacy even after marriage. Just because you cohabit doesn't mean you need to check the other person's privacy thoroughly. "He is not your private property, and there is no need to be frank and lenient in his privacy.". Pay more attention to your future and less attention to his past, which makes it easier for you to gain a sense of happiness and security.