Post Date April, 15 2023
In the past ten years, many young people have been in love well. Once they are about to get married, they begin to enter into the life after marriage because of non-stop, even some fear. In the past, love and marriage is the most normal thing. In the 70s and 80s generation, some people start to fear marriage. Today, let's see why modern people "fear marriage".
Family responsibilities
The married life is destined for two people to take on more family responsibilities, but some people are afraid of marriage because they are afraid of taking on family responsibilities. Some women have lofty ambitions. After entering marriage, they circle around their families, husbands and children all day and suddenly become short-sighted.
They hope their husbands have more responsibilities. They don't want to be "house slaves" or "car slaves". Men in weak power earn less money, so they are under great psychological pressure. In order to escape the responsibility of family life, they prefer to live together in the same way, but they keep silent about the major events of marriage.
Loss of freedom
After marriage, the two people have legal comfort and moral constraints, and you have lost some freedom before marriage. This is what we all have to experience. Most women still hold the old idea of "weak wife and strong husband" in their bones.
In addition, the media played up the words "extramarital affairs", "cheating", "mistress" and so on, which made the women who had not yet entered the marriage in fear. If a man gets married, he will be bound by his wife. Although he loves each other, he will lose his freedom like a prisoner.
Not true love
In this materialistic age, the marriage of two people is the addition, subtraction, multiplication and division of various conditions. Therefore, many people fear marriage because they are worried that the other person is not really in love. Most successful men have cars, houses and savings. They are not short of beautiful women, so they are willing to spend their leisure time with them.
Although they yearn for love and family in their hearts, they are deeply troubled by the phenomenon of women worshipping money and utilitarian marriage. Afraid that the other party only loves money but not himself, he firmly believes in the maxim "distance produces beauty".
Lose love
It is said that marriage is the tomb of love. Although some people question this point, some people will choose to believe that marriage fear will naturally occur over time. Some women want to have a home and have a stable life. Because of his low income level and even his inability to support himself, he is afraid of losing his husband's love because of marriage. He prefers marathon love rather than "wife" or "wife".
Strong women and weak men
Modern women have begun to work hard in the workplace. They are no longer the traditional women in the past. Successful women are financially independent and generally have high social status. Many women own their own companies, houses and cars.
They don't need to rely on men in material matters at all, and even surpass men in career. However, the stereotyped thinking of "strong men and weak women" is accepted by most men, who are good at face, and therefore shy away from those "strong women". Many successful women don't want to get married, but they can't find a suitable partner.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
