Post Date June, 28 2023
Do you have to show weakness when you love someone? How should you show weakness in love? If you truly love someone, you will constantly "show weakness". This sentence contains the way for two people to get along. Two strong people will inevitably have many contradictions and conflicts when they are together. What are the manifestations of constantly showing weakness in love? The constant display of weakness in love can sometimes be a slow simmering fire. If a handful of firewood is burned, the fire of love will also be extinguished.
But no matter how mundane love is, when two people get along, they will also encounter some problems. When we encounter problems, the person who truly loves you will constantly show weakness, instead of being superior. Even after encountering something, they will be unreasonable and even make trouble without reason. There is a saying that goes, "The party who bows their heads first after a quarrel is not a born weak person, but is willing to give up because they are afraid of losing
If you truly love someone, you will constantly lower your position. Outdoor activities also show that you love them. Men show weakness because they are afraid of losing each other, while women show weakness because they love each other and want them to protect themselves.
1. Satisfy the other person and ignore oneself. If one person is like another person when they are lost, it is easy to satisfy the other person and ignore oneself. Just like some girls really like a piece of clothing and want their boyfriend to give it to them. Although they have money in their hands, the meaning of a boyfriend giving it to them is different. The sense of happiness cannot be measured by money.
But if one's boyfriend doesn't have money now, then a woman will also satisfy the other person and ignore herself at this time. This is also a sign of weakness, which satisfies the man's needs but fails to meet their own needs. Yu Qiuyu said: "In love, there is always a leading role and a supporting role. The tired is always the leading role, and the injured is always the supporting role." Even if a woman lowers her position, she must not let herself become a supporting role, which will only make her more and more tired. One day you will find that everything you do will not pay off. Your man may also buy things for others, but he has never paid a penny for you.
So if you have always satisfied the other person and ignored yourself in love, but the other person has never felt your heart or given anything to you, at this time, you should carefully consider the relationship between the two people and weigh your position in the other person's heart. When you truly love someone, it's just to satisfy others, so you lower your posture. It's impossible to keep taking, never caring about your feelings.
2. Taking care of the other party's feelings and wronging herself, Zhang Ailing said, "Let the dust fall and flowers bloom." In Zhang Ailing's emotions, she has always been a very sensible woman, although at that time, Zhang Ailing was a very famous talented woman and eventually moved to the United States. So in everyone's eyes, Eileen Chang is a very talented woman, and also a very wealthy woman.
Zhang Ailing's maternal grandfather was Li Hongzhang, so such a woman actually had good family conditions, but ultimately died in a foreign land. This is because sometimes we show weakness too seriously. In order to take care of the other party's mood, we always wronged ourselves and never expressed our needs. It is because we are afraid that the other party will be unhappy after saying it, so we silently watch the other party, hoping that they can turn their hearts and minds back, but in the end, everything goes against our wishes and we come out to fetch water in vain.
If a person doesn't take care of your mood, especially a man, and doesn't take care of a woman's mood, then such a man is an unqualified man. At the same time, if a woman sees her husband working extremely hard in life, but never takes into account his feelings, then such a woman is also an unqualified wife, which also reveals that this woman does not care about her husband so much and does not love him so much.
If you truly love someone, even if you have some small temper, you will lower your position and be willing to show weakness to them in order to take into account their emotions. Just like sometimes when you see what the other person is doing that makes you dissatisfied, but at this time you also see that the other person is really difficult for the other person, and there are also their own hidden moments, then at this time, you will feel like letting the other person go, because the other person is not easy either.
This is because you love the other person, so you want to let them go once, but if you don't love them, you never think of this. Even if you know that the other person is particularly hard, you don't show weakness, and you won't forgive them. There is a person in life who understands you hard won. These people hide their emotions and silently understand your feelings. Don't think such people have no temper, they care about you more, that's why they are like this.
3. Cognition is the fear of losing the other person. After some people argue with the other person in their life, they will immediately acknowledge it. Whether it is the other person's mistake or their own mistake, they will immediately apologize to the other person. A friend once said that his boyfriend was like this, so he felt that he didn't have the masculine spirit, so the two of them finally embarked on the path of breaking up. In fact, just because a man is like this in front of you doesn't mean he doesn't really have the courage of a man. It's just that he doesn't have such dignity in front of you. He just hopes you can forgive the other person, which is why he shows weakness in this way.
It's just that when a person gets a good thing or meets a good person again, they never want to cherish the other person, never think about seeing the benefits of the other person, and often see the negative side of the other person, so they will miss this person. Many years later, when they recall that period of time, they will feel that they did not grasp that relationship well at that time, and will also regret it later.
Stephen Chow said, "There was once a relationship before me that I didn't cherish, and now I regret it too late. If it's still time, I'm willing to tell that person that I'm willing to love for ten thousand years." But there are no regrets in the world, and there are no ifs. If there are regrets, and there are so many ifs, then there will be no regrets in life. Wang Han said, "When you are alone, treat yourself well; when you are two, treat each other well." When you meet a very good person, you must know how to treat each other well. If you have not yet met someone, then you must also treat yourself well. People who never know how to show weakness in relationships actually don't love you at all. When you meet someone like this, you must break off the relationship early, which is also a manifestation of being kind to yourself.
