Post Date August, 26 2023
When it comes to sex, it is a matter of personal privacy, and few people talk about these issues in their daily lives. Sexual activity is a physiological requirement of the human body, but it is also the foundation of relationships between men and women. Harmonious sexual activity not only contributes to health, but also increases the emotional bond between couples. In short, sexual life is an indispensable part between men and women, so it is necessary for men and women to master the techniques of sexual life. This helps improve the quality of sexual life, but are you aware of the four privacy issues in life?
Do you have any understanding of the four sexual privacy issues in life?
1. Foreplay mainly involves hugging and kissing
What behaviors do you engage in before engaging in substantive sex? A survey shows that hugging and kissing (lips, tongue, earlobes, neck, back, etc.) account for 70%. Dr. Kurt, a Michigan psychologist and sex therapist in the United States, pointed out that the best sexual foreplay should meet the four major needs of human vision, touch, smell, and hearing. Using music lighting to create an atmosphere, telling jokes, breathing in contact... There is no need to be too rigid between couples, and patterns can be changed and various forms can be changed every time.
2. Half of the people had less than 3 minutes of foreplay
The survey shows that 12.7% of people do not have foreplay and go straight to the topic; 41.31% of people have foreplay time within 3 minutes. That is to say, more than half of the people have less than 3 minutes of foreplay time. Yang Dazhong, attending physician of the Department of Sexual Medicine of Yuquan Hospital, Tsinghua University, said that a complete sexual love should include three parts: foreplay, substantive sex and afterplay. The time allocation of the three parts should follow the principle of 2:3:2.
Generally speaking, the overall sexual intercourse time can satisfy both parties within 20 minutes, so it is best to occupy about 6 minutes for foreplay. He suggests increasing foreplay time as one gets older in order to fully prepare the body for high-quality sex.
3. 6 adults are not satisfied with actual sexual intercourse time
The actual sexual intercourse time is less than 5 minutes for 26.28% of people, and 6-15 minutes for 37.96% of people. At the same time, over 60% of people feel dissatisfied or ordinary about their sexual time. Professor Ma Xiaonian from the Department of Sexual Medicine at Yuquan Hospital of Tsinghua University pointed out that people always pay too much attention to the timing of sexual intercourse, especially for men.
In fact, the actual sexual intercourse time between couples in various countries is not as long as people imagine. According to a survey published in the United States, the average duration of sexual activity among citizens in multiple countries is 4 minutes and 24 seconds, with the longest recorded being 44 minutes and the shortest being 30 seconds. Experts from the University of Utrecht in the Netherlands believe that the time from insertion to ejaculation is 3-7 minutes, which is sufficient to meet the needs of both parties.
