Post Date April, 15 2023
I am 24 years old this year, with average family conditions and a salaried family. I have a sales job in a listed company and the benefits are relatively generous. I haven't been in love until college and I want to find someone to love
I met my current girlfriend online in February this year, and when I met her, I felt very good and both of them were from the same hometown, so I entered the stage of love.
After a period of contact, my girlfriend told me that he had been in a relationship for over 5 years and was his classmate. She has put in a lot of effort for that person, including her first time. One day, I accidentally saw their sweet photos on her computer, as well as the feelings of my girlfriend after breaking up in her computer diary. I think I can accept it. After a month of acquaintance, we had a relationship.
One day while tidying up the house, I found a set of couple underwear in the box where my girlfriend kept her underwear. I asked her what was going on. She said that when she first started working, she met a man and had a relationship. But when the person got married, they didn't continue.
I admit, this is something I can't accept. In the days that followed, I was always a bit absent-minded.
I just want to ask everyone, what should I do, whether I firmly want to end this relationship or continue? If it continues, how should I regulate my psychology.
Actually, when I write down these things, I feel a bit better in my heart. At least I can find a platform to share my inner troubles with everyone.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
