Post Date April, 15 2023
My husband suffers from premature ejaculation. Although our husband and wife have a very good relationship, this problem is still very troublesome. I now take the method of upper ring birth control, and I don't need to use condoms to prevent pregnancy in my normal sexual life. However, I have recently noticed that many advertisements or packages of condoms claim that condoms can prolong sexual life and cure premature ejaculation. However, when I proposed to use condoms during sex, my husband was not willing to do so. Excuse me, how effective is the condom in treating premature ejaculation? Does it have the effect of prolonging ejaculation time?
Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction, and many men suffer from it. The causes of premature ejaculation can be divided into secondary premature ejaculation and primary premature ejaculation. Secondary premature ejaculation is a symptom caused by other diseases, such as caruncle inflammation, prostatitis, spinal cord injury, etc. Measures should be taken for the treatment of primary diseases. When the primary disease is cured, premature ejaculation will improve. There is no exact cause of primary premature ejaculation, and there are many methods of treatment, but so far there is no completely satisfactory measure.
People have long noticed that wearing condoms during sex can delay ejaculation - condoms seem to cure premature ejaculation. Now, many advertisements also claim that condoms can "cure premature ejaculation". So do condoms really have this effect? In fact, many advertisements at present only exaggerate the characteristics of prolonged ejaculation latency after wearing condoms. Not all premature ejaculation should be treated with condoms. Patients with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation who have low libido and need full stimulation of the penis to obtain satisfactory erection are not suitable for wearing condoms. Erectile dysfunction or low libido is an important reason for this type of premature ejaculation, so it is necessary to improve the quality of erection or improve libido first. In short, during sexual intercourse, such patients need to fully touch and stimulate the penis to obtain satisfactory erection and maintenance. If you wear a condom, the local stimulation to the penis will be weakened, which will affect the erection, and even lead to incomplete sexual intercourse.
We know that patients with primary premature ejaculation often have high sensitivity in the penis head or frenulum, especially in patients with redundant prepuce or phimosis, and the local part of the penis is particularly sensitive. This kind of patients wear condoms when they have sex. Because a barrier is added between the penis and the vaginal wall, the sensitivity of the local part of the penis will be reduced, which can play a role in delaying ejaculation. This type of premature ejaculation patients can make full use of the characteristics of prolonged ejaculation latency when wearing condoms, and gradually train the ability to control ejaculation.
You can take the method of moving, stopping and training. That is, stop sexual intercourse when you feel the urgency of ejaculation, and continue after the urgency of ejaculation. The effect will be better if combined with anal constriction training. That is to say, insist on anal contraction training at least 150 times a day, which can enhance the muscle contraction of the perineum and help to enhance the control of ejaculation. This repeated training can ultimately achieve the goal of treating premature ejaculation. Of course, this method will take at least half a year to work.
What are the causes of premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation brings men the deepest pain. It makes men unable to raise their heads in front of their beloved women. It can be said that it stabs men's most sensitive self-esteem like impotence. Premature ejaculation makes men unable to show their virility and experience the conquering feeling of the beautiful orgasm that sex brings to women for a long time. Why do men suffer from premature ejaculation, and what causes a strong man to become a fast man?
1. Excessive sexual behavior before marriage
The so-called "young people don't know how expensive sperm is". Some young people have sex before marriage. Because they are nervous, excited, and ejaculate in a hurry, it is difficult to change the established ejaculation mode after marriage.
2. Sudden interruption of sexual life
Some people do not want to take contraceptive measures such as condom use and contraceptive ring placement after marriage, but use external ejaculation method for contraception, because both parties are very nervous to concentrate on the withdrawal of external ejaculation from the penis, and the man's too nervous will easily cause early ejaculation.
3. Too little sexual experience
Some people are prone to premature ejaculation due to the stress of work, study and life, or the separation of husband and wife, or the long-term business trip of one of the husband and wife. Some people are worried about premature ejaculation, and deliberately reduce the number of sexual intercourse, causing sexual tension to accumulate, but exacerbating premature ejaculation.
4. Lack of understanding of sex
In social interaction, people seldom interact with women, and are too shy and shy when they are with women. Some people lack sexual knowledge, have a sense of mystery about sexual organs, and are prone to stress and panic, resulting in premature ejaculation.
5. Long-term masturbation and masturbation
Some people have a history of excessive masturbation. Although masturbation itself does not directly cause premature ejaculation, they always want to end it as soon as possible because they are afraid of being discovered by their parents or dormitory partners when masturbating for a long time, so they form the habit of hasty ejaculation.
6. Bad relationship between husband and wife
In a woman-headed family, premature ejaculation may occur due to excessive fear, excessive worship, strong inferiority complex, or potential hostility towards the wife. When the husband is dissatisfied with his wife, as an outlet of sexual desire, he should quickly ejaculate. In addition, sometimes the woman suffers from genital tract inflammation, which can cause pain due to sexual intercourse, so the woman requests to end sexual intercourse as soon as possible, causing premature ejaculation.
7. Poor living conditions
Generally, this is a common situation for families with poor economic environment. If two or three generations live in the same room, they are in a hurry when having sex and are prone to premature ejaculation.
8. Psychopathic disease
Some people pay special attention to the ejaculation of semen during sexual intercourse. Affected by "one drop of semen, ten drops of blood", they worry that sexual life will damage their bodies. Excessive worry can lead to premature ejaculation, but excessive indulgence can also lead to sexual dysfunction.
9. Causes of sexual organs
Premature ejaculation caused by organic causes is often accompanied by impotence of different degrees, such as prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis, diabetes neuropathy, seminal caruncle inflammation, urethritis, and too short penile prepuce frenulum.
