In marriage, no matter how good and intimate their relationship is, they can't say anything. In many cases, the necessary lies can make their relationship more stable. It is right for two people to be intimate, but it is not necessary to tell each other every detail of everything. When quarreling, you can't keep the door open. If you don't stop, and may lead to conflict intensification and marriage breakdown! Therefore, all married couples should beware of "evil from the mouth".
Too close will lose yourself
Love should only be specific and enthusiastic. However, if you share every piece of life with each other, it will not be more intimate, but will be suffocating. Without your own space and secret, it is like losing yourself. Yes, that's right. If you measure intimacy by the standard of saying everything, then the two will only go farther and farther. It was meant to promote the relationship between two people, but it finally made them feel suffocated and had to get rid of each other to breathe
Everyone has his own secret
In marriage, communication between two people is very important, which can promote mutual understanding. In a good marriage, many couples want to talk with their partners. However, when we are used to a communication mode that involves everything in detail, we find that our relationship has not become more intimate. The basis of intimacy is not only to know everything about each other, but also the secrets you don't know.
Always scare each other with divorce
Impulse is the devil. The most taboo in marriage is to threaten divorce. However, in life, there are some people who talk about divorce, which is not so easy to leave. But divorce is too much to talk about, and it is not good to listen to it, because the unity of husband and wife has gradually been forgotten, and it is the main theme to break up. Maybe one day, the two people quarreled and quarreled to be true, and then it would be too late to regret.
If you quarrel, you will forget the past
No matter what festivals and complaints you have in the past, you should not mention them in your present life, especially when you quarrel. However, some couples have to dig up old accounts every time they quarrel. For example, the husband forgot to buy a birthday gift for his wife. For example, the wife called her first love a long time ago. Don't say how hurtful this way of digging up old accounts is, at least it seems to be very creative? How can we run to happiness without hesitation when we are always thinking about the past?
Always expose each other's sadness
When we are quarreling, we are all very emotional. It is easy to say something that hurts the other party, and even uncover the other party's scar. It is not fair to say anything if we also sprinkle salt on the scar. For example, the woman scolds the man for being unproductive, and the man is furious: "XXX is promising, why don't you talk to others, because they are so promising, they just don't look up to you and dump you?" This scar is too sharp!
When quarreling, they will abuse each other's parents
This is very fatal. No matter how you fight and how you scold each other, it will rarely hurt your true feelings. However, if you abuse the other party's parents during a quarrel, it will directly escalate into war. Therefore, no matter how noisy you are, don't scold your elders. This is not only a matter of your family education, but also a matter of personal moral cultivation. Unless you decide not to have sex with him (her).
Complaints are not sexual
Both men and women attach great importance to the quality of sexual life, especially men, who value their performance in sexual life. Because this is the performance of their sexual ability. However, now many women are complaining that their husband is not good, so men are very injured, even worse. When there is time to complain, it is better to use LELO's MONA2 and MONA2 to help sex, which not only adds fun to sex, but also improves men's confidence, killing two birds with one stone.
To sum up, not everything can be said between husband and wife. It is good for marriage to speak slowly and keep your mouth closed.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)