Sexual Health
Couple sexual psychology: different moments of promiscuity between single men and women
Couple sexual psychology: different moments of promiscuity between single men and women
People are a wonderful creature that cannot explain themselves, let alone control themselves. Especially the lonely men and women who have experienced a bit of setbacks and tasted a bit of the bad taste of life, due to complex reasons, they temporarily drift in the rolling world without shelter. In fact, walking freely in the bright sunshine, they are almost all full of vitality and happiness; However, everyone has hidden thoughts, but they are deeply hidden and cannot be watched by the outside world.
A Western philosopher once said that it is either a beast or a deity. So the "lonely man and widow" who temporarily live in seclusion feel a bit of the eccentricity of the gods and the madness of the beasts in their hearts.
I have seriously considered this matter. Under four dangerous situations, they are the most likely to expose their fragile emotions, and also the most likely to indulge themselves, creating a sense of regret for their mistakes:
(1) Dusk
This is a poetic moment, with sunset glow, tired birds returning to their nests, the curling smoke from the countryside, and the dazzling lanterns in the city, each attracting different spirits of tourism. Single people are most afraid of this kind of time, when all their labor has subsided, all the troubles have faded away, and only one desolate self remains. They cannot give themselves a clear explanation? Whom are you calling? Why The more graceful and graceful the nightlife outside, the more lonely and desolate they feel. I have a classmate with an unfortunate marriage who once told me with red circles that I was afraid.
In a state of sadness and panic, unable to find a home... "At this moment, as soon as one's mind heats up, there may be something out of place.
(2) Midnight
Everything fell asleep, everything was silent, and only one's own soul was awake in the world. Sleep well, it's difficult to sleep peacefully, often it's like 'still holding a pillow without sleep' or 'weeping for others until dawn'. Play, you can relax for a moment. Alcohol can numb the limbs, but not the soul. It's getting dark, and in the midst of the vast universe, there's only you, alone tasting the pain of being imprisoned, exiled, without a confidant, and without a future. Zheng Banqiao's motto of 'it's hard to be confused' once again confirms the taste of 'standing alone and hanging in shadow'. At this moment, don't panic and choose your path.
(3) Before the holiday
Playboy Xu Zhimo is very good at dealing with beautiful women. When he and Lu Xiaoman were in a private state, he once wrote a letter of comfort, to the effect that the most difficult time for lovers is traditional festivals. At this time, they had to separate and hide their identity and emotions in the dark. Just like Tchaikovsky's Symphony of Pathetique, the more magnificent the preceding lines, the more desolate the feeling behind them. It is also like Zhu Ziqing's exclamation in his prose: "The excitement is theirs, and I have nothing." At this time, it is easy to have accidents!
(4) After drinking
I fully understand why the ancients emphasized the importance of "cautious independence". In other words, both righteous and influential individuals are driven by flesh and blood. When external conditions are relaxed, especially when the moral environment is ambiguous, human innate biological nature begins to be restless, and may even break through various human constraints and become uncontrollable. It is often said that "Baijiu is popular with people, while gold moves people's hearts." Wine is the culprit of "taking people's minds". Because of mental anesthesia, excessive behavior, and a lot of sadness, no one can guarantee that after drinking, there will always be a stable "aristocratic style". In fact, regardless of the so-called "dusk, midnight, before holidays, after drinking", as long as we find decent excuses, emotional impulses can occur at any time. I just have to take responsibility for myself. At these critical moments, just put a little effort into it.