Many women may wonder why some men live in such a negative way, and we all know that they want the other person to take the initiative in everything they do. So, what sexual psychology do men have? Why do men have psychology such as passive syndrome?
Negative attitudes are related to childhood
Psychologists have analyzed that most of these men have been influenced by a negative father in their childhood, and they have never been able to establish an emotional, energetic, and masculine image in their hearts. It is precisely this "generational inheritance" of negative personality that hinders men's reform.
Fortunately, now there are finally men to study and prompt men's problems. Nowadays, the male liberation movement in the Western world is also becoming increasingly widespread. If both men and women work together to break the same chain that binds them, instead of fighting against themselves or their partner, then the phenomenon of "yin flourishing and yang declining" will no longer exist.
For those with 'passive syndrome', experts believe that it is still necessary to quantify 'passive' as' active ', communicate more with people on weekdays, participate in activities that can cultivate emotions, and often spend time with optimistic and cheerful friends. If a wife is smarter and more sociable than her husband, while exerting her abilities, she should also take into account her husband's feelings, actively seek his opinions, and guide him to participate in common affairs in the family.
Psychologists have summarized the common manifestations of the top 10 symptoms of "passive syndrome" in men and found that their characteristics are as follows:
1. Extremely emotional, often getting angry about a small matter, but unable to explain the reason for the anger.
2. Go home and remain silent, either smoking alone or soaking in front of the TV without moving.
3. He craves solitude, is afraid of socializing, and family chats can make him upset.
4. I always feel fatigued, either with low back pain or gastrointestinal discomfort, and I can't find any symptoms when I go to the hospital.
5. Unable to concentrate on listening to his wife and children, constantly distracted and absent-minded.
6. Lose three and fall four.
7. Not willing to talk about their situation outside to their wife and family, and not sharing their grievances.
8. Avoid sexual activity, either waiting for your wife to fall asleep before going to bed, or dawdling in the newspapers or in front of the TV until late at night.
9. I don't want to participate in social activities with my wife, so I can only accompany her to restaurants, movies, and other activities because these activities do not require mental or emotional communication or psychological communication.
10. An inexplicable sense of boredom. I want to do something, but I am unable to do it. I have high aspirations but low abilities, and I feel guilty, regretful, regretful, and self blaming.