Communication between spouses is crucial in sexual life and is the key to maintaining a good sexual relationship

Sexual communication between couples is important, but sometimes difficult. Perhaps some couples spend their entire lives together without truly achieving mutual understanding and communication in sexual life. A perfect sexual life is not about simple actions, ejaculation, or withdrawal. For example, in the most common form of vaginal intercourse, there are many details with both parties, such as mutual understanding, posture, changes, etc. Couples cannot discuss, have mutual insight, and cooperate well. Renowned American expert in male studies, Bernie Chisengeld, said: Men are afraid of rejection, afraid of being considered strange, afraid of shyness, so they cannot speak up their hidden desires directly.

However, there are several signs that can be used to determine whether the husband is not satisfied with sexual activity, and there are other requirements. For example, when asked about their satisfaction, they may stutter, flicker, or have a significant decrease in the frequency of voluntary sexual activity. Usually, husbands dominate sexual life and become social stereotypes. However, many men have an inner desire to live with their wives sometimes and to relax and enjoy the joy of sex. Dr. Lyle, a Sex therapy in Chicago, said: If your husband suggests you try the same new thing, try not to feel embarrassed or afraid. This reaction completely closes the door to sexual communication between couples, and men believe there is no reason to express their inner desires.

Dr. Jane Wolff, a clinical psychologist, said: Even if your husband really doesn't like his suggestions, if possible, try to try with him to cultivate the atmosphere. Both sides respect each other's will and want to achieve it together. This atmosphere is very beneficial for both sexual life itself and marital relationships outside of sexual life. However, experts also agree that one cannot accept things that one party feels unhappy, painful, or harmful. Dr. Wolf believes that if you feel a bit uncomfortable, if the painful code is 1-10, 5, or less, it's worth a try. When you can compromise, compromise is enough. Cannot compromise, nor will it harm marriage. As long as you sincerely listen to his voice, you have indeed tried acceptable new things with him. Communication is the key to maintaining good sexual relationships. Pursuing updates in the sexual life of couples and increasing their sexual activity is not an occasional task, but a sweet and happy sexual journey that couples persevere in throughout their lives and need to work together.