Early childhood sex education has always been a concern for parents. If their sexual awareness is not yet complete, they are likely to discover adult intimate behaviors and imitate them, such as hugging, kissing, stroking organs, etc. It can be said that the phenomenon of precocious puberty is worrying.
A child's kiss must be treated correctly
Bright at work has been very excited lately. At night, while sleeping with her mother, she lies in her ear and stealthily says, "Mom, Jia Jia kissed me today. Mom asked: How did you kiss me? Shining his head and thrusting it into his mother's arms, I apologize and say, 'Kiss my mouth.'. Jiajia is a very cute girl, and she is usually well liked by Bright. If there is anything delicious at home, don't forget to bring it to Jiajia. The bright mother thought it was just pure friendship between children, but she didn't expect a child under 5 years old to learn adult kissing.
The mother said seriously, 'Such a child is wrong. Only when they are with their favorite person can they kiss like this.'. Liang Liang said, 'But I also love me.'. My mother suddenly realized the seriousness of the problem and patiently said, 'Love is selfless, love lives together, and when I grow up, I know what love is, so I can kiss like this.'. Highlight nods and falls asleep. At this point, the bright mother understood that she neglected sex education for her child in daily life, and did not expect that the living environment would also help her child achieve precocious puberty.
Preventing precocious puberty in children and communicating with them
Kissing is just an imitation behavior between children, and they do not even understand the true meaning of kissing. Therefore, we cannot view their imitation behavior from the perspective of adults. Currently, many parents in families express their intimacy and love for their children by touching their lips. Kissing or hugging is also common.
These details that are easily overlooked by us are remembered by children. They are easy to imitate after watching, but during the imitation process, some children do not receive the correct guidance from their guardians, and these children are prone to blind sexual behavior. Faced with their behavior, we cannot consider it right or wrong. This will leave the child at a loss. At this point, we should immediately communicate with the child and provide correct guidance. For example, tell children that they can express intimacy to each other and adopt hugs and handshakes. Tell them that when they grow up by kissing, they can only become parents.