Can't children's sexual questions be perfunctory? What should parents do when facing children's sexual issues

A kissing competition held publicly in Chengdu left onlookers at a loss. "Where do I come from?" Usually, children ask their parents this question. Parents are their first teachers, and sex education is no exception. However, in the survey, it was found that most parents in Kunming usually turn pale when it comes to "sex", and early sex education in families is in a blank state.

Children's sexual questions

I am most afraid of children asking me strange questions like this. Many parents are unable to proactively discuss sexual knowledge with their children, let alone how to answer them. Parents usually hesitate to answer, "You were picked up in the mountains; your father planted a seed in your mother's belly, where you sprouted and grew up to take it out of her belly... Some children believe it true and do not know how people are conceived and born until they reach maturity. At the age of marriage, they do not know what marital life is.

Some children, when they see the term 'condom' in magazines or books, ask their parents, 'What is a condom? What is its use?' Some children, when they see an animal's sexual behavior on TV programs or magazines, ask their parents why animals do this? Some parents adopt an evasive attitude; Some parents say, "Children should not inquire about these things, they will know when they grow up.

Parents believe that their children have become "bad"

Ms. Wang, my mother, said, "I will tactfully tell my daughter some of the things I see as stories. The sexual confusion and many mistakes of modern teenagers are not intentional, but due to ignorance.

When children want to learn about sex and related knowledge, especially when they have sexual impulses, many parents often believe that the child is about to learn poorly, which is a manifestation of unhealthy thinking and consciousness. So they adopted a scolding, even beating and scolding attitude towards their children, believing that it was a shameful behavior for them to talk about sex. The scolding from parents makes some children hold a sense of self blame, even guilt, towards some normal physiological and psychological reactions during their growth and development. For example, masturbation is a common way to solve sexual impulses during adolescence. Due to many teenagers not knowing the causes and effects of masturbation on their bodies, and being ashamed to seek advice from their parents, they are unable to extricate themselves and bear a heavy mental burden, which is extremely detrimental to their physical and mental development.