Post Date May, 24 2023
What are the misunderstandings of premarital sex? In modern life, premarital sex is nothing new. Most couples have sex before marriage. Do you know the misunderstanding of premarital sex?
What are the misunderstandings of premarital sex?
1. Satisfy curiosity and exploration psychology towards' sex '
Due to the emphasis on introducing sexual organs and sexual life content in many books and publications, the lack of sexual psychology and moral education, coupled with the increasing number of neutral aesthetic scenes in movies and television, as well as the phenomenon of hugging and kissing on the street, this cultural atmosphere often catches the eye, causing many couples to have a hazy awareness and curiosity about sex. During a romantic relationship, many couples do not refuse sexual requests from each other. The survey shows that 64.3% of women engage in sexual intercourse due to curiosity and impulse, and only regret it when they have to miscarry during pregnancy.
2. Upgrade a romantic relationship
Many young women use 'sex' as a measure of love, believing that only sex can sustain and develop love. Some believe that having sexual intercourse before marriage is a procedural requirement of love and a necessary path. If it occurs early, it can determine the relationship as soon as possible, upgrade and deepen the love, and strengthen the cohesion of both parties. Under the domination of this concept of sexual love, they sacrificed their entire life too quickly.
3. Pursuing so-called "new" ways of falling in love
Performance viewpoint: "Conventional love is incomplete. True love should reflect vastness. Since I love him, I can give him anything, and love should give the loved one freedom, why wait until after marriage." Under the control of the trendy psychology, couples quickly transitioned from first love to hot love, and from marginal sexual behavior to core sexual behavior. According to China's sexual ethics, the most intimate forms of sexual activity during a man or woman's love period can only be kissing, snuggling, and caressing. Sexual intercourse can only occur under the conditions of legal protection in the marital relationship. The arbitrary "trendy" behavior is a manifestation of a lack of sense of responsibility.
4. Eliminating Boyfriend's Worries about Yourself
Some women feel that their boyfriend meets their own requirements for choosing a spouse and is an ideal "handsome man". They fall in love at first sight. They feel that "there is no shop after this village" and take the initiative in the process of love. In order to express their sincerity, some women hastily commit to each other, while others take such immature and unwise clumsy actions as "being able to tie a man's heart" and "locking in love with sex" to avoid being abandoned by the man.
How to treat premarital sex correctly
1. Before getting married, one can rehearse their future marital life in advance to avoid situations where it is easy to fall in love but difficult to live together. Eventually, due to the inability to accommodate oneself in life, a breakup and divorce may come to an end.
2. Harmony in sexual life is an important factor in maintaining stability after marriage. Previously, blind marriage and dumb marriage led many people to discover that the person next to them had various sexual function problems, even being unable to have children, leading to either enduring it for a lifetime or ending their divorce. Such a marriage can be said to be a waste of time and energy. Premarital sex can let the other party test sexual ability and sexual harmony.
3. Whether adults or minors need to pay attention to the fact that premarital sex must be responsible for their own health. Both men and women should learn to protect themselves, take safety measures, use condoms correctly, and prevent infectious diseases; We should establish correct sexual psychology and sexual morality, be responsible for our own behavior, and be responsible for premarital sex; There should be a correct way to acquire sexual knowledge and learn the correct sexual knowledge.
Many people have misconceptions about premarital sex, so we should treat premarital sex correctly.
