Can elderly people also have sex? The three major stages of men are prone to "failure"

The itch of ten years of marriage makes it difficult for couples to achieve "sexual pleasure". When men first get married, their desire for sex is particularly strong, and they even have sex every night. As sexual activity increases after marriage, the mystery between couples gradually disappears, leading to a significant decrease in their sense of sexual well-being. Below, the editor will introduce the three major stages of men's tendency to "fail"!

One year before marriage and two years after marriage

Before and after marriage, both men and women are in a stage of significant emotional fluctuations. Most young couples nowadays are only children who grew up under the indulgence of their parents. My personality is more self centered, and most people don't think about each other. I often argue over trivial matters.

There is a young man and woman who have been in a relationship for several years and are preparing to get married. At this time, they are in a period of great career development and face enormous pressure at work. Frequent friction between the two parties causes great psychological pressure on the man, which over time affects his physical health and prevents him from getting an erection. The woman cannot understand and scolds the man for fooling around outside. The two eventually divorced two years after their marriage.

The reason for this is that neither side knows how to accommodate. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a male, one should show magnanimity and dare to say "I'm sorry" first when there are conflicts, avoiding the intensification of conflicts. This has a positive effect on one's own health and the relationship between both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure on the other party and provide gentle and considerate consideration.

Married for over ten years

After sleeping in the same bed for 20 years, it is inevitable that there will be some 'aesthetic fatigue'. There is a couple who have been married for 12 years, and their children are in third grade. In the first two years of marriage, the husband's most hopeful thing every day is to be able to leave work early and accompany his wife. Later, he started his own company and started a life of early going out and late returning. However, the woman's figure is out of shape due to not paying attention to maintenance after giving birth, and she does not pay attention to facial skin care, which makes her look old-fashioned And without vitality. Faced with his wife who is no longer glamorous, he finds life dull and unable to bring up any interest in "sex". Having sex more than twice a week has turned into not having sex once in half a month.

If there is disharmony in sexual life and there is less and less skin contact between spouses, it is necessary to create a loving atmosphere and communicate the feelings of love in a timely manner. Zhang Bin pointed out that couples working in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue due to the fact that both the unit and the family are facing each other day and night. To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich their sexual life and rediscover the feelings of love. Even if work gets tiring, men should try to help with household chores, buy groceries together, go shopping, go on outings, play ball games, watch movies, and relive the feeling of dating. Women also need to maintain a fresh image. Frequent changes in clothing styles and attempts to use the husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.