Post Date May, 15 2023
When his interest in you gradually cools down and he is no longer as cold as before, it means that the relationship may enter a stable period, but it may also dilute the early crisis signals. This is an important turning point in love. Be careful to pull him back, solve the "frozen" relationship, and by the way, strike while the iron is hot to bake a sweet fragrance for love
1、 Understand his feelings
First of all, why is he cold? You can think of the answer for yourself. Does he like others? What caused the difference between the two people? Has his future plans and ideas changed due to his job transfer?
If he is just cold and unable to contact you, but has not bid farewell, he should ask him tentatively based on the timing. Don't vent your dissatisfaction, propose a reasonable attitude, create an environment that is easy to speak with wind and rain, adopt a gentle attack, and can express your feelings without hesitation. The person who takes the lead always has the disadvantage, while the domineering person can only bring about the ending of the breakup. He may have already liked others, but considering you, he has fallen into a choice again. It is also possible that due to certain things, there may be a gap between you, and when we meet, we cannot avoid arguing, which makes him very upset. Many times, you cannot get the true answer from him, and noise can only let the truth bury in his heart forever. Pay attention to language and speculate on his mood, especially when speaking. In addition, before discussing the mind, it is necessary to set possible situations in mind.
Situation 1: If he doesn't love me, I won't force him anymore, just disperse well
If you truly feel that his heart is no longer with you from his eyes, words, and actions, dispersing well is the best way. But if you are unwilling and insist on knowing the reason, then you may as well ask him, or you can use this as a valuable experience and apply it to your next love.
Situation 2: "He's just a bit lost now. I want to give him a chance and also give myself a chance to save his love
To be honest, it's quite difficult to achieve this. But if you really want to be brave, first you need to adjust your mood. For example, even if you know he is lying, you should not be prepared and leave everything to time. After a while, he may confess to you on his own. I often think that this kind of conversation is to improve the relationship between the two, and arguing cannot solve the problem. Rather than releasing one's emotions, it's better to compromise and find a compromise.
