Although we have always advocated for transparency between couples, everyone has their own bottom line, and marriage is the same. accidentally touching the bottom line of marriage may push it to the brink of collapse. Today, let's follow the editor and take a look. There are four bottom lines in marriage that couples should never touch.
1. Bring up divorce when you argue
It is inevitable that there are some bumps and turns in the lives of two people. One accidentally has a quarrel, and both of them are in a state of anger. It is easy for them to say irrational words, which may seem casual, but can hurt each other's feelings. Once the relationship is broken, it is difficult to repair, such as divorce.
If it weren't for the irreparable state of marriage, these two words would definitely not have been spoken out. If you mention divorce every time you argue, it can easily give the other party a hint that you want to leave at any time, which is not conducive to the maintenance of the relationship.
2. Separation or long-term asexuality
The relationship between husband and wife requires sexual activity to maintain, and sexual activity largely determines the degree of harmony in the relationship between husband and wife. Some couples live asexual lives, buying a box of intimate condoms and not using them until they expire. This kind of marital relationship can quickly collapse. A domestic survey of divorce reasons shows that besides infidelity, the second most common cause is disharmony in sexual life.
3. Cursing the other party's parents
No matter how bad your dispute may be, you cannot scold the other party's parents. This is even more cruel than slapping the other party's face, and this behavior is unforgivable in the eyes of men. This is likely to happen once and be thrown away by the other party.
4. Not giving men face
The face of a man is his second life. If you attend occasions together, especially in front of his colleagues and friends, you must give a man's face. You cannot talk back in public and make a man lose face. For example, some women like to play coquettish, so they play coquettish indiscriminately. During a male company dinner, you hold onto the other person and play coquettish, which makes a man want to die.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)