Scenario 1: Kiss and embrace Love signal: A gentle kiss that lingers slightly on the cheek, telling the other person: I'm glad to see you! If other parts of the body also participate in this welcoming ceremony, it will further strengthen this message. For example, a big, tight hug reflects a wholehearted emotion.
Danger signal: The stiff and tightly closed lips reveal that the heart is full of pressure and wants to avoid this intimate relationship. When hugging, deliberately keeping an appropriate distance between the bodies indicates that it is an obligation rather than an emotion.
Scenario 2: Dispute
Love Signal: There is a significant difference in body language between a happy couple when arguing and an unhappy couple. They may seem angry, but they are also very engaged; Their bodies will face each other while constantly looking into each other's eyes. This body language means that we must solve this problem now!
Danger signal: Some body language reveals that the couple's problems far outweigh the current dispute. The psychotherapist said, 'When he suddenly turns around and glares at her, he may subconsciously want to threaten her and make her shut up.'. If her head turns around, her gaze wanders, and her arms embrace her chest, she has already made it clear that what you say is not worth listening to! If his face is expressionless and his eyes are looking at the corner of the room, he is no longer listening and thinking about how to get out! This may be the worst of all signals.
Scenario 3: Eating in a restaurant
Love Signal: It's easy to tell if a couple of New Year's Eve lovers are married in a restaurant. In general, men and women in love always overlook the existence of food. Girls hold their fragrant cheeks and look at each other, while men, since they have beautiful food to eat, have long regarded good wine and food as dirt, chatting freely. Married people, on the other hand, hold chopsticks and munch on the food until they finish before giving each other a glance - implying checkout and departure. This is a common practice, but you will also find that happy couples, even with children, always appear very close. They often pay attention to each other: give them a glance, give them a smile, or raise their eyebrows, and engage in a silent conversation.
Warning signal: A happy couple will follow each other's rhythm, and in problematic relationships, it is common for them to have tea when they are only halfway through their main course. The seating arrangement for children during meals is also crucial. If your husband is sitting on your side and the child is sitting on the high chair on the other side of you, then you are likely to eat with your back to your husband all night.
Scenario 4: Watching TV or reading on the sofa
Love Signal: Sweet couples may not necessarily lean tightly against each other when sitting on the sofa. But even when sitting at both ends of the sofa, they still often exchange glances and usually face each other with their bodies. Psychologists say that the interpretation of body language is not absolute and must depend on the situation. The important thing is that both parties can reach a tacit understanding and often tell each other: I know you are here. Yes, I love you.
Warning signal: In unhappy couples, there is no sense of unity between them. Their bodies tend to lean towards each other. When broadcasting advertisements, they don't take advantage of this opportunity to speak up, but instead avoid each other. For example, standing up and walking away, starting to read magazines, or constantly changing channels.
Scenario 5: Mutual ownership
Love Signal: When a happy couple has sex, they don't just focus on physical contact, eye contact is more important than anything else. They will generously tell their lover through body language that it feels great!. The coordination of sexual love can be more easily achieved through body language.
Warning signal: Whether male or female, closed eyes, stiff neck and shoulders reflect frigidity and anxiety.
Scenario 6: Walking Together on the Road of Love
Love Signal: When a loving couple walks, they will follow each other's steps, which makes them feel very coordinated. Research has shown that lovers in love can even have the same heart rate!
Warning signal: If one person always walks a few steps faster than the other, it often appears hostile and lacks at least a sense of unity. While walking, one of the people suddenly turned to cross the street and did not notice the other half, which also revealed a problem.
Misunderstandings caused by body language
Psychologists explain that a message of love can sometimes be misunderstood by the other party. For example:
You kindly help him adjust his tie. He sees this as your possessiveness and treats him like a child.
Pulling your upper arm or elbow and taking you across the road, you feel like he's forcing you to follow him.
You followed his gaze to let him know that you were very interested in what he said. He first thought you wanted him to be centered around you and you, and after maintaining your gaze for a period of time, he began to feel that you were attacking him.
When you get dressed, he looks you all over and wants to tell you that I think you are really beautiful! But you think he's examining your body and may think you're too fat.
You hold him while affectionately patting his back. He thought you felt sorry for him, so give him comfort instead of love.