Sexual Health
Blindly "blocking" children's early love is not advisable. Sex education should focus on six points
Post Date May, 07 2023
In daily life, many parents often become furious like thunder after discovering signs of early love in their children, and even adopt many extreme behaviors to beat ducks. Little did they know that this approach often backfires and even leads to more serious consequences.
Psychological experts particularly remind parents and friends that blindly blocking children's early love may lead to fear of the opposite sex and homosexuality.
It is normal for adolescent boys and girls to have a favorable impression of the opposite sex. In the face of their early love, the most important and necessary thing is actually the correct guidance of parents and teachers, rather than blindly "blocking", let alone "misleading" in terms of concepts.
Nowadays, in middle and high school campuses, we often see two children of the same sex called wives and husbands. According to traditional thinking, close communication or hugging between two girls (boys) seems to be a manifestation of friendship, and classmates, guardians, and teachers do not have subtle language about this behavior
In real life, most parents and teachers pay attention to and prohibit the close contact between the opposite sex. As long as they find that the contact between children and friends of the opposite sex is a bit frequent, they will use parents to dissuade them, and the teacher will find a single mode of dialogue in front of children. Surprisingly, this approach not only fails to achieve their expected goals, but also may cause children to feel a sense of rejection and fear of the opposite sex when choosing partners.
Psychological research shows that every child needs idols during their growth, especially for adolescent boys and girls. Due to the instinctive worship needs of humans, many boys and girls like to imitate the every move of their favorite stars, hoping to gain recognition from their classmates, especially those of the opposite sex. In addition, they also have natural love needs - both the need to love others and the need for love. If parents and teachers blindly block their children's early love, they may make mentally immature children afraid of the opposite sex. As time goes on, this unreleased love will naturally deviate from the same sex track.
Sex education should focus on six points:
1. After a child is born, regardless of gender, it is important not to confuse the choice of naming, clothing, and daily necessities, in order to prevent the child from developing ambiguous sexual awareness towards themselves and others from an early age and affecting their sexual orientation.
