One of the benefits:
Now that they have married and divorced, most of the men have experienced the vicissitudes of life. The mysterious and unpredictable feelings of the blue boy who was tortured by the girl's appearance have become a thing of the past. So when remarriage, most of them do not have too strict requirements for women.
So blessed are the women who are left behind by handsome boys. They can not only dictate to make this once defective man bow to their ears, but also because some men do think that divorce is a defect, so they are obedient to how vulgar and intolerable a woman is;
Benefit 2:
Mr. Marx said: In the heart of every man, there is a desire for polygamy. Because of the fact that a divorced man already has a polygamous wife, the risk of his repeating the old tricks and abandoning his wife and children is much less. And because of the conceit and vanity of a man, he will not admit that his vision has gone wrong again and again. So if you marry him, even if it is not as good as his original wife, you have to endure for the sake of "face"! Hee hee.
The third benefit:
It is gentle and fragile. Unless he is a playboy at all.
The feelings of divorced men are mostly fragile, and they need someone to comfort and encourage them for a long time. It doesn't need much. It only needs a look and a love word without capital. For women in love, it's easy to catch a small bird and a soft voice in Mandarin. With a few words of love, which smelly man will not be moved to cry and cry out that it is too late to meet?
Therefore, the cost of falling in love with it is lower than that of falling in love with the first married man.
Benefit 4:
Relay effect.
No man or woman is divorced because she can't bear it. And I believe that the former wife of the man you like must have done a lot of, spare no effort, and reckless transformation to him. Although there is no change in the sky and sea, it is an indisputable fact that the man must be distorted in the direction of women's needs.
So when you take over, you can save some "edification" trouble, and most of the men who have gone through the divorce also have the thought of "taking a cut and gaining wisdom". Most of the requirements for the new wife will be "highly valued" and "seriously considered", and their experience is not to be doubted, and the emotional factors beyond the experience make you feel like a fish in water and happy!
Five benefits:
It is also the most important one - life experience.
Except for the divorce caused by hidden diseases, the life of remarried men and their new wives is mostly harmonious, and their adaptability to the new couple is far better than those of the young boys who have only enthusiasm and no brains; And the control of rhythm is beyond the reach of those young people who only know how to behave.
Human beings are emotional animals, and sexual harmony plays an important role in the stability of both parties' feelings. Just like a cautious woman who travels by car, are you willing to choose an experienced, steady and delicate driver to drive, or are you willing to find a kid who just graduated from driving school and doesn't know the height of heaven and earth to control your fate?
Fun needs to be cultivated and accumulated, and some things may spoil your life's interest after one time, really.
The value of divorced men is far higher than that of young boys. This is the truth proved by practice.