Post Date April, 15 2023
As the saying goes, "Every family has its own difficult to read scriptures" is true. Every day, many stories happen, including joy, sorrow, love, and hate. This is life, isn't it? We often need to find reasons from sad stories to avoid them and make our lives better. Today we will take a look at what happened between them.
I have been married to him for almost a year and have had sexual intercourse about 3-4 times before marriage. Every time, I use TT without taking 3 or 4 minutes to ejaculate. I always think he is the first time and nervous, so I don't care much. I think he will gradually recover in the future, and there will be no problems. However, in the month before marriage, we have had sex a few times, but he is still in that state. In this case, I am starting to worry about him, I think he has some health issues. I discussed with him for a pre marital check-up two weeks before getting married, but the hospital's pre marital check-ups didn't show any signs of any problems. The wedding day is gradually approaching, and there are still three days left to get married. My parents have returned to my hometown from a different place. My dad asked me why the money on my card hasn't been moved, why I haven't bought a dowry, and whether I should marry or not. I said I don't know, but I told my family about his situation. They said they heard about him before and he asked people about his problems. They all agreed to receive treatment, but it depends on your own thoughts. Emotions are something you can't ask for. My dad said he thinks carefully and if he doesn't want to get married, he won't get married, As long as I don't regret it, I can. I said I'll think about it one more night and reply to you tomorrow. Everyone else's family is happy to get married to their daughter, but my family is the only one that worries my parents. I saw my mother's worried face, and I really can't bear to let them worry about me anymore. That night, I didn't fall asleep all night. I was scared. I checked many Du Niang tests to see if they could cure me, but there was still no result. My mother came into my room at night and looked at me with concern, saying, 'If you want to get married, if you don't want to, don't get married. As long as you feel good, it's okay. My heart at that time really felt that there was no more difficult choice in the world.'-----
The next day, I told my family that I would get married and go buy a dowry today. There were no supporters at home, but my sister was an opponent. She said that a marriage without sex would have to divorce sooner or later, and I don't approve of your marriage. I understand her meaning. She is afraid that I will be the same as her, and she is afraid that the marriage will not be happy, the family will not be happy, and she will harm herself and her children. She is afraid that it will even affect her parents to worry together because her marriage is a failure, (Her failure was finding an irresponsible husband) So... I know her thoughts.
On the second day, my sister accompanied me to buy a dowry. Along the way, she kept asking me to think carefully and understand. When choosing a wedding blanket, my heart seemed to be hollowed out, and everything was chaotic. My sister asked me if you wanted to get married, and if you didn't want to answer, she called me and decided not to get married. If you wanted to get married, you had to take care of what you wanted. Throughout the process, everything was chosen by her. I didn't have the heart to choose, and while choosing a blanket again, I really regretted it, I sent him a text message saying, 'I don't want to get married anymore,' but he replied, 'I'm almost home. I'll wait until we meet again.'. I agreed! I still bought the quilt like this. In the evening, I kept waiting for his phone call because there was still one day left. At 21:10pm, he called and cried and told me, 'I'm having dinner with my friends now, and they all know I'm getting married. They all wish me well, and I know my family's conditions are not good, but I will definitely work hard to make you live a better life.'. I don't remember what else I said, but my heart softened and I promised him. Okay, I'll marry you! That's how we got married. Our family confiscated their dowry, and their family borrowed money from their uncle to buy the three gold coins. They only paid a portion of the down payment for the house, but there was still a gap. I didn't buy all the clothes, so I still got married. When my wedding dad took my hand and handed it over to him, I cried into tears. I don't know why I cried, it was because I cried that night! We slept in the same room, but he still shot in less than 3 minutes. That night, I cried and I didn't know if my choice was right or wrong. At that time, I felt so aggrieved.
On the fifth day after marriage, I said I should go to the hospital and have a look. He promised me to go to the hospital and the doctor said that excessive peeling would affect sexual activity. He asked him to undergo surgery, but he agreed. We hardly slept in the same room for two months after the surgery. The doctor said it would take him a month to recover, but he still didn't recover after two months. It was almost the third month that he gradually recovered, and he didn't feel that much pain anymore. At the beginning, when we tried it, it was the same as before. We didn't recover for 3 minutes. At that time, we all thought it might be because we hadn't recovered well after the surgery. Later, we went to the hospital for a follow-up examination, and the orders were all normal.
The doctor says that the body is normal, so it depends on whether the psychology is abnormal? Why don't we go see a psychologist so that he won't speak? I said let's go see a psychologist. He said it's too tiring to work and just need some conditioning. I think it's also possible that work is too tiring. It's been a year in the blink of an eye, and he's still in this state. I said I won't go see a doctor again, but he said there's nothing to see. He knows his own business. In the past two months, I said we shouldn't use TT, so that you may gradually recover after exercising. But this way, he is even more powerful. Sometimes he shoots in less than a minute, sometimes he shoots before entering, and sometimes he shoots in a semi soft state. I can't even get inside my body. Seeing him like this makes me anxious. I think we are still so young, although sex is not very important, it is also a part of life. When he had sex with me, he didn't know how to foreplay at all. He thought he was stupid and didn't like kissing me. Every time he wanted it, he would do it himself. When I wanted it, he would refuse me because he was tired and for various reasons, up to four times a month. Every time he asks for the most, he strongly demands it when my aunt comes. I said my body was not convenient, so he used his body friction to solve it. I really don't know what to do, nor do I know what he thinks. Every time I talk to him, he refuses to talk to me and also refuses to talk to me. I am really worried that one day I will move towards divorce in this kind of life. But I don't want to do this. Let's go back to our hometown after a two-day holiday. I told his parents. I hope his parents can persuade him. I hope he goes to see a doctor. But the results of this hospital examination are still normal. I prescribed some aphrodisiacs. I really don't know what to do? I don't know how this medicine works. It has been a week since the medicine was brought back. He doesn't eat either. Refuse to take it on the grounds of having a cold and uncomfortable throat. He also said that taking aphrodisiacs harmed the liver and refused to take them,
