Post Date April, 15 2023
Premarital
Everyone has a love for beauty. Before marriage, a man's heart is still wandering and hasn't settled down. He hopes to find a beautiful girlfriend to save face in front of his friends. He may engage in several romantic relationships at the same time, just to find the type of wife he most wants.
Men love beautiful women, they are beautiful and have a radiant face; Men should be gentle women who can be harmonious and complementary to their strong personalities. If a woman is too strong, it often makes it difficult for men to control and makes it easy for men to become the head of the family, with women leading the way and men leading the way. This is difficult for most men to accept. The parents in a man's bones have a strong posture and need others to listen to him. If combined with a strong woman, it is easy to get beaten. Gentleness is a woman's secret weapon and a man's emotional weapon. When a woman's gentle attack is suspected, a man's psychological defense line will break through and become a captive of the woman obediently.
After marriage
In the The Honeymooners after marriage, a man is obedient to his wife. After work, men feel the dedication of women and work harder to ensure a good life for their wives, who prepare hot meals and soup and work hard to create a warm family environment for themselves.
However, the The Honeymooners period will not last long. As time goes by, no matter whether a man is successful or not, he will get tired of his wife. Without the freshness and sweetness of the honeymoon, there will be a seven-year itch.
After marriage, men no longer pursue romance as they did during their pre marital love period. They face family pressure and have to support their wives and children, without leisure time to create romance. In order to work, he will have a lot of socializing, often going out for social occasions, meeting different people, and he will be tempted from various aspects. Your beauty gradually becomes a yellow faced woman after marriage, your gentleness will become rough and resentful after marriage, and your efforts will gradually become unwilling. You believe that you also work hard in the workplace, and there is no reason to let yourself bear all the household chores. You start complaining about your husband, and your complaints also make him tired. He will gradually stay away from home and come home later and later.
Extramarital
Men are different before and after marriage, and even more so outside and within marriage. There is a very cruel fact in front of us, which is that most men cannot resist temptation and have the idea of cheating and having an affair. Amidst his wife's constant complaints, the man's heart slowly shifted, and the beautiful side he had seen before marriage passed away, leaving only the mundane aura of fading away.
Previously, people said that the seven year itch was due to changes in people's aesthetic perception and the expiration of their freshness towards something. Generally speaking, seven years is a deadline. But as people in society face more and more temptations, the seven-year deadline has also been shortened, becoming a popular choice for one or two years, and even less than six months.
Nowadays, the post-80s generation do not place as much responsibility on marriage as their parents do. They value the feelings between two people more. If there are no feelings between them anymore, they will choose to divorce rather than compromise for responsibility, believing that this will ruin their happiness. Happiness and feeling are more important than responsibility.
If you want a man to be loyal to his marriage, you must keep him fresh for a long time, so that there won't be many marriages that will be taken off the shelves like expired food. Most men still have a strong sense of responsibility, but how to make men not lose their responsibility and conscience in the face of beauty is a big learning.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
