Post Date April, 15 2023
The compulsory course set by society for men is "achieving success", which is now also called "achieving efficiency". But neither "achievements" nor "benefits" are so good at "producing". As a result, it is often seen that many men are exhausted and almost unscrupulous in seeking opportunities, as if men originally have no status to speak of. Only by desperately striving to "win" can they have a foothold. Compared to women's inherently beautiful biological characteristics, men are too difficult! In terms of emotions, it seems that men have been practicing a kind of "convergence" skill all their lives: when there are tears, they cannot flow, even the old saying goes, "When a man has tears, he cannot flick lightly."; "If you have difficulties, you cannot complain, otherwise you will be accused of being" weak ".". It has been said that it is social role regulation and biological role regulation that conspire against men, so their average life expectancy is significantly lower than that of women. Although this statement is somewhat extreme, it is not without reason.
However, no matter how difficult or bitter men are, life still needs to continue. Bravely facing the challenges of life, striving to adapt to the environment, and adjusting their emotions are what men should do.
Anger is abuse of oneself
Anger is a common situation that we often encounter in life, and even "angry to death" is a common spoken language. Whether it's arguing with the boss in the company or being silenced by an "unreasonable" wife at home, men often sit alone in a corner sulking. That sense of frustration and loss is difficult to express in words. In fact, where is there so much anger to generate? American sociologists once said in a book entitled "Anger, Misunderstood Emotions", "Anger is not a innate emotion or behavior, but a learned one. People decide whether to be angry or not." In other words, people's anger can be controlled by themselves. This is why some people are furious about the same thing, while others are complacent and don't take it personally. Therefore, as long as you understand that anger is a problem with yourself and self abuse, you naturally won't often let yourself "die of anger" unless you treat anger as the spice of life.
It's actually easy to not get angry, so listen to the expert's advice.
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