Post Date April, 15 2023
Everyone has a "boredom period" in their psychology, and if the couple lives on like this, boredom will naturally arise. Love is like a fairy tale world, after decades of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife gradually fades away.
But does this indicate that you are all tired of marriage?
1. Stop talking sweet words
As is well known, saying thoughtful and flattering words to a spouse is one of the elements that constitute a harmonious marital relationship. There are many ways to express a meaning, and the key lies in the way it is expressed.
If you are too lazy to make your partner happy, it indicates that you are tired of it, at least you no longer value the feelings of your partner so much.
2. Enthusiastic in social activities
Both husband and wife are busy participating in social activities to avoid intimate contact, which is called "birth separation". Both mentally and physically, you have already developed barriers.
3. Group photo of two people
If there are no group photos of you in the room, even if there are, they are just casually stuffed in an inconspicuous corner. Then you need to reflect on yourself: why are you ashamed to let others know about your intimate relationship?
Is it because you feel like you don't match each other, or because you don't want people to know about your marriage - it's a sign of lack of confidence in your partner.
4. Often imagining leaving
If such thoughts occur frequently, it indicates extreme dissatisfaction with the lives of the two, and even "uncontrollably" preparing mentally to leave each other.
5. Not willing to take a vacation together
It is a pleasant thing to enjoy the scenery of lakes and mountains with loved ones, but if you are only willing to spend a short time together, it is like being "enthusiastic about social activities", indicating that the relationship between the two has become estranged and a sign of a rift in the relationship.
6. Stop arguing
This is the worst sign. Couples who argue all day are more likely to live together than couples who are feeling suffocated. The argument indicates that you still have enthusiasm and the courage to communicate. And that cold silence is the biggest sign of divorce.
