Excluding any pathological changes and any special social situation (such as rape), from a physiological perspective, women's sexual ability is almost unlimited. She doesn't have a penis and doesn't have to go to great lengths like a man to produce and maintain an erection. Especially for women, there is no physiological "refractory period period", and there is no sense of weakness after sexual intercourse. So objectively, she can have frequent sexual intercourse at any time.
The intensity of sexual activity in women is only limited by physical strength, and there is no need to worry about penile weakness like men do.
In addition, women have more and wider sensitive areas on the surface of their bodies than men, so they are more able to objectively change specific ways of sexual behavior.
Finally, women can achieve an infinite number of orgasms in a row, which is unparalleled by men.
The Confucian and Taoist families have long discovered this. But in order to maintain the male centered society at that time, they were filled with deep fear. Confucianism advocates the strict suppression of women's sexual abilities with the concept of 'women's asexuality is virtue', while Taoism advocates the use of men's' cherishing the essence and protecting oneself 'to counter women's infinite sexual abilities.
These two cultural traditions of sexuality have penetrated into the hearts of Chinese women, and their sexuality has been severely distorted and alienated. Make them always feel double sexual repression in their personal sexual life.
Before engaging in sexual activity, women involuntarily feel that sex is a man's exclusive right and should not actively seek it. If unmarried women dare to claim that they also have sexual arousal, dreams, or reactions, other men will definitely take advantage. In this way, a woman's wedding night becomes a "pass", often bringing unnecessary physical and mental distress, and even pain.
After marriage, women's sexual behavior is still considered to only serve their husbands, as long as they never refuse their sexual demands, it seems that they have good sexual abilities. If the wife dares to say she needs an orgasm, she may be considered as "insatiable". If the wife makes some special requests she needs, the husband is likely to think she is "disobedient" and even ask the bottom of the question, "Who did you learn from
International feminism believes that both genders are homogeneous and homogeneous, but due to the fact that society has been centered around men for thousands of years, various cultural systems have severely suppressed women's sexual abilities and performance. Women themselves are gradually being cultivated and trained as' asexual ', and unconsciously, they believe that women are born this way.
Feminism believes that women's liberation and gender equality must include sex, restore the original appearance of women's sexual physiology, and allow women to enjoy their innate sexual abilities and pleasure spontaneously, autonomously, consciously, and self-regulated like men.
If a woman cannot recognize and use her unlimited sexual abilities, she cannot obtain equal status and independent rights (not power!), nor can she achieve equality in other aspects of social life.
In the past, our sexual theory was introduced too little. So in the eyes of some educated Chinese women, the physiological drive of sex seems vulgar, that is, denying the sublimity of love, and even belittling women. In fact, it is precisely in those cultures that respect women's sexual abilities that the flag of love flies higher than ours.